well me and my guy friend have been talkin and he told me that he wanted to have sex with me. and i mean i mean i want to. but the problem is me and him is not dating. should i wait 4 him to ask me out. or just do it????
2007-03-25 09:03:51 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I would probobly be in relationship first e-mail me at s_elston_92@yahoo.com for more
2007-03-25 09:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him before you get to know him. A girlfriend ago, I had sex with her after just a few weeks (coworker, I only worked on the weekends). I never took her out, we just flirted at work and I gave her car rides home, she gave me sex. After 4 months of finally dating and being bf and gf, the relationship died horribly. It was entirely based on sex. You may think that a relationship like that will last but it's not true love. Sex makes you think it is but it isn't. My relationship was entirely about sex and when she got sick and I wasn't getting any, it put a real strain on the relationship and led to its abrupt ending. It hurt me really badly and if you want to have a serious relationship with this guy then do not.
2007-03-25 16:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're this immature and asking such a question, I'd advise to you not do it regardless of whether or not you're dating.
You seem very young and ill-prepared for sex. It's not as simple as hopping into bed and just doing it.
Have some self-respect and DO NOT sleep with this guy. It seems he wants you more for the sex and less about the friendship. Don't go there. It can and likely will lead to a lot of emotional pain for you.
2007-03-25 16:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it just depends on you if you wan t to be know as easy or if you want a bf. Because if you not his gf and not going out withhim all he wants from you is sex. An d once he gets what he wants you won't see him again not unless he can't get it anywhere else and when he needs it he will come to you. But I would just tell him to move on and not worry about him.
2007-03-25 16:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um wait to go on a date with him!!! see how he would be like more than a friend. so date him and when u feel ready u can do it. but be careful ask him if he has been checked u know the whole deal
just be careful
2007-03-25 16:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by shrimpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have meaningless sex with boys you are not even
in relationships with..
2007-03-25 16:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are MARRIED before you do that!!! Believe me, the consequences are EXTREME!!!!!!!!!!!! ( I won`t go into details, it might scare you)
2007-03-25 16:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying yes to him would show that you're desperate so if you are sure but if not have some class.
2007-03-25 16:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋