I was with my ex steven for two years jan 2002 to jan 2004 and we were engaged then we split up due to jealously and arguments then a week after we finished he got a new gf but we still kept in contact as mates then he came to mine and we had a nice chat and slepted together and started seeing each other behind his gf's back thay split up and we have continued to see other up til december 2006 wether he has a had a gf or not tho now he has changed his number so cant phone him tho he is a bus driver and im worried i will bump into him when i get onto a bus and we start it all over again as i heard he is getting married in july 2007 to a girl he has been with for 6 months i still love him and want to be in a relationship with him again but if he doesnt want a relationship with me that hurts but we still end up in bed if i ever see him again WHAT shouls i do plz help x
2007-03-25 09:01:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop letting him use you thats what hes doing
2007-03-25 09:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting him treat you like this, you are just being at his beck and call. You can find someone a whole lot better who deserves you. At this point of time I can understand how u must be feeling....but just think of how he has treated you and why the two of u broke up in the first place...he doesnt want a relationship with you, he just wants to have his cake and eat it whenever he wants to. If you do see him just say HI and walk past him, there is no need for the two of you to be freinds.
take care.
2007-03-25 10:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by hunybuny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get this guy out of your life, have u heard of the phrase, have your cake and eat it?well he is having it all. it means nothing that u always end up in bed, if he had any real feelings for you, he would be with you and not getting married in 4months.
he only ends up in bed with you cause he can. im not trying to be nasty to you, but i have been in the same position myself. he just kept you on the side untill he found someone else, now he has he doesnt care.
2007-03-25 09:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs_W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you nevertheless have thoughts to your ex? in case you dont have thoughts, dont undertaking/experience to blame too a lot! he's your ex boyfriend, you're certain to constantly think of a few issues he does are candy. Ive gotta say nevertheless....... in the journey that your boyfriend unearths out i don't think of he would be happy! possibly it would be ultimate in case you instructed him your self, i think of he'd understand greater in case you heard it from you and he might additionally be waiting to assist if youre perplexed approximately all of it! :) i'm hoping it seems ok!
2016-10-19 21:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self-respect and learn to drive!
He doesnt sound like a very nice man if he happily uses you whenever it suits him but then drops you when he has someone new or is happy to cheat on them with you. Go find a decent man who will treat you right.
2007-03-25 09:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be strong and not let him walk all over you and just be with you when he wants it.
If you see him again hold your head up and think to yourself that im too good for him.
A leopard can't change his spots sweetie. He cheated on his girlfriend with you and there would be nothing stopping him cheating again and every girl is too good for that!!! So you be strong and confident and say NO!
Good luck hunnie xx
2007-03-25 09:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by RE789 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt even tell his gf that he was sleeping with someone else then hes a coward. let him go your better than a bit on the side. his gf probably found out and band him from seeing you or speaking too you
2007-03-25 09:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by ciaran e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on please forget this man.u losing time .u could have found someone u really love if u would have left him behind.he did it though.he just has sex with u.do u think this is love?i would never have someone else after a week i finish a 2 years relationship;and from ur side i would never accept to have sex with my ex if he touched someone else.love is all another thing.
2007-03-25 09:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and move on. Stop letting him treat you like a booty-call.
2007-03-25 09:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by whocastaspell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out be strong and find a new man
2007-03-25 10:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋