2007-03-25 08:58:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really love this girl who never liked me the same way I liked her. After four months of us talking, she told me she was falling in love with someone else and that a couple of her friends were falling in love too. I panicked and told a friend what she said. I was afraid of her liking someone else besides me. I left out the names of her friends when I told him. He figured out who and teased her friends about falling in love, so the girl I like got mad at me and wouldn't talk to me. At the time I didn't know better to not say anything at all that we talked about. I gave her space for two months, then we had a small conversation until her bus came and I asked her if she was still mad at me. She told me no, she just didn't want to talk to me anymore. 11 months later and during all that time I thought about her every day like I had been doing. Since then we just rarely say hi to each other but I desire so much more. Sometimes I catch her sneaking glances at me.
I decided to tell her how I really feel about her and that I just want us to be friends again. The only thing is that I love her. I also think she's got to be the most beautiful girl I've ever seen even though my boys and parents think she's just alright. I think she's sweet and that she has everything I've been looking for in a girl. I implied I was in love with her the last time we talked (11 months ago online), saying "people do stupid things when they're in love." She said " YOU WAS NOT IN LOVE, so dont say that, stop talking like that!" The conversation ended with me saying "It wasn't lust, but it's fine if you think I never loved you." I don't think I said that last sentence right, I meant that I respected her thought but she may have thought something else because she said "whatever" and signed off ten minutes afterward with no reply from me (I gave up). I thought I should give her more space. Recently, I tried to talk to her, to tell her I only want us to be friends again but she turned her back towards me and ignored me completely. Since then I've been trying to forget her, realizing that she doesn't care anything about me.
2007-03-25 11:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am always in love with the wrong person. There will always be someone better out there for you and it sucks when they come along and you are involved with someone else. My solution is that I will never be with ms. perfect and I am fine with that. Every relationship that ends because I realize that I want different or better is a learning experience and that helps me move to someone better next time.
2007-03-25 16:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by scheel_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wrong person for what? I don't consider anyone I've been in love with to have been the "wrong person", just perhaps not good long-term potential but that's okay...I've had enjoyable experiences and learned valuable lessons just the same.
2007-03-25 16:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were coworkers, she hit on me, was very aggressive and we'll say slutty even though the connotations for that word are strong. I knew that it prolly wouldn't last because her mother was insane and she was deceptive towards her mother (I never thought she would be deceptive towards me though). I broke up with her, but she tried to make it seem so much like i was the asshole and that she really had loved me a lot. she messed with me for a while, making me try to get back with her but never letting me, so I decided that I was glad she didn't let me take her back I guess, because she wasn't right for me. Right now I wish I hadn't shamed myself by backing down after I rightly broke it off. I love her and I will always love her, but I need to suck it up and move on.
2007-03-25 16:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we were togeher 4 more than 2 years
all mine and his friends knew us and we were quite popular .i thought we are the best couple .
you know i was so happy when i was with him
he could not see me sad
but i had to move to some other place but i thought we will still be in touch coz i could think my life without him
from there i called him he picked up the phone and when realizing it was me he just banged the phone and i was so disheartend
my friends called me and told that he started dating many other girls
i could not believe it but i had no other choice
i think i am too pathetic too understand wrong people
2007-03-25 16:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have for the wrong reasons too. Well when I would go around school with him he would be all huggy and kissy with me then he wanted to have sex with me when we got alone. I was scared to so he broke my heart, that is when I realized I didnt need him to be happy. You can e-mail me for sensual details at s_elston_92@yahoo.com asap
2007-03-25 16:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I ended up getting my heart broken, and I needed a therapist to help me pick up the pieces. She had to be the single biggest mistake in my life. Luckily I met miss right soon after her!
2007-03-25 16:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have, my gut feeling told me to run as fast as i could, but i disregarded my intuition, and married him, endured 10 years of being controlled, abused, and finally cheated on, and abandoned. so when u get the wrong person there are consequences.
2007-03-25 16:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought i loved my boyfriend of 6 months, until he broke up with me because i wouldn't have sex with him. I realized that i wasn't in love, i was just stupid and didn't know what it was. I moved on, and found true love in a guy who loves me because of who i am, not what i can do for him.
2007-03-25 16:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by browneyesoxx 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and he turned out to be a bast...that's what happened.
2007-03-25 16:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋