i have fallin head over heels for this guy, but the thing is i feel like i have a bigger s.e.x. drive than him.
i always have to intitiate things.. for once i want him too, once i do he is GREAT, but for once can't he initiate things?
why can't he initiate things????
2007-03-25 08:58:21 · 10 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmmm...I was in a similar situation. In all honesty, you have to talk to him. Basically say that "you really would like it if he would start the engine once in a while". I don't know how old you are, but that conversation is a very mature way to just talk to your partner about your drive. It's okay to feel like that, but it's fair to tell the person about it.
2007-03-25 09:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by BM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad, but some people just enjoy sex more than others. I am realizing this more as I get older. It's probably good that you are realizing this now instead of after marrying the poor guy. That's what's wrong with waiting to have sex after marriage! I would say, even though it will be hard, talk with him about it. Tell him how you feel. If it doesn't help, move on. You would eventually start looking for someone else to please you in that department anyway. Good luck!
2007-03-25 16:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if anyone ever gets this right... MY drive is much much more than my wife's.
I would strongly recommend you find a partner who can keep up with you otherwise you may stray later on in the relationship to get your fix. You may also find you are a bit more kinkier than the other party and he may be unwilling to service your additional needs further down the line...
2007-03-25 16:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by gingermano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't answer that question for u, only he can! go and talk to him about it! tell him that its great and all but u want him to take over for once! i know exactly how u feel- i hate it when guys never take the first step and force me to do it all the time! i'm sure, tho, if u tell him how u feel he will step up and be a man!!
2007-03-25 16:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem
In 20 years my wife NEVER initiated sex.
And I know I could please somebody well, tons of energy.
Its like a job for her, why?
lookin for somebody like you I think, 33 to 53?
2007-03-25 16:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you two are not compatible.
2007-03-25 16:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isnt ready
2007-03-25 16:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by Chase Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it.
2007-03-25 16:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by hello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you ask him instead of us
2007-03-25 16:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him!
2007-03-25 16:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by is it too late? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋