what's the best place to go on a date when your 13 years old?

Question

i have a 12 year old boyfriend...we want to be alone but in order to go anywhere we have to have adult supervision. well he has a hard time talking infront of my mom and i have issues talking in front of his mom. those are the only people that would take us anywhere. i was thinking big surf or something but i am just trying to find a place that we could talk alone and fun at the same time...the phone gets boring. please give some fun ideas or some definant "no's" on places to go. ill even take experiances...as long as there for when you were 13 cuz i really dont want to here well...i dont know what i want to hear so...ya

Answer 1

I think it's up to your mom and dad where you go. You're only 13!

Answer 2

Okay honey your 13..and thats great that your experiencing a boyfriend status. But to be quite honest there is not much to do at thirteen. You cant drive and you cant go alone, you cant go to a bar or a club....and I would suggest movies but you cant talk in those either. If i were you I would try putt putt golf. And sit down with your mom and explain that you dont mind the supervision but could they sit elsewhere while you guys play. I'm sure your mom will be willing to listen to your feelings and compromise with you. After all thats why moms are moms. This way you get to have fun and talk....and the moms have supervision over what is going on. Remember....your parents are paying for your fun...cause you cant work yet. And you have to understand that in order to have privilages you must compromise and do what is asked of you for a certain amount of time. Don't worry, I know the phone can get boring...but I live with my fiance and even that gets boring! I really would suggest just talking to your mom. Hope it helps and good luck!

Answer 3

First off I gotta say that having your Moms' take you guys out on a DATE is WOW! At that age, for me to even THINK of having a boyfriend, much less asking to go out on a date would be well....NOT HAPPENING is the best description. However< I think I am more open minded, I guess if you guys wanna talk and hang out and stuff....then for me one of the best places I can do that, and have some fun with tons of people around, is at the beach! I mean, it is public, and there are people around, and it could be a nice day! you two can go for a nice walk on the beach and talk, and be together, done that a few times with my boyfriend, and it was nice! Or you could try an amusement park, if there is one where you live, or a fair. That could be nice too! a bit noisy, but hey, anywhere works when u wanna be together! I mean you can go on a ride together, and have fun, I mean it could be promising! Or somehting along those lines.....what do ya think?

Answer 4

Dating at 13? From experience, that's a scary thought, body is maturing, hormones rioting, impulsiveness is a given and the teenage youthful brain is still adapting and and often is not equipped to handle difficult or potentially dangerous situations.... nuff said on that...

All 12-13 year olds are shy and have difficulty speaking up in front of someone else's parents, that's nomal! Since you are too young for driving someplace yourself, having a parental chauffer is a fact of life. Do they drop you off and pick you up at your destination? At least be thankful that they don't stay and hover.

Some young teens have demonstrated maturity and responsibility beyond their years and If your parents don't have any qualms about you dating at such a young age, then I suggest group activities, never as a couple alone but with other friends.

Is there a local youth center that sponsors dances or events? Meet at the mall for a movie then go for pizza! Try roller blading, biking, sporting events, concerts,etc. Include each other in family outings when possible and as the families get to know you both, you will become more relaxed around them. At a family outing/picnic, there will be times then when you can take a walk together

Going out with a group of friends there will still be time to relax, be yourselves and have conversations without the problems that can occur alone. You'll have plenty of years ahead to go places as a couple and to be alone, don't rush.

Answer 5

I think 13 years old is too young to be thinking of dating ,but if you do I think adult supervision is a good idea!!! talk on the phone or go to the movies wait a few more years to think about being alone.

Answer 6

Only 13 and u're already in a dilemma looking for a place to date with your 12 yrs old bf. When i was 13 i was busy playing games like "police and thief", football, kite flying and stuff like that. Geeeezzz guess kids nowadays can't wait to grow up. Ok since u're both kids go for a kiddie movie or go to the bowling alley and play. When i say play i meant bowling ok. Or maybe the mall. Go someplace active with activities and not some quiet place.

Answer 7

Well when I was 13 I either went to a friends and then went to his house.. or ended up sneeking out in the middle of the night. How about.. like.. the movies? My parents STILL don't let guys over and i'm almost 16. I think it's kinda dumb but she probably has a reason. Have fun whereever you go or do.

--be smart. remember, you're only 13.

Answer 8

chill out at each others houses and ask the mom just to give you a little privacy to talk, but keep the door open, you should be allowed to have a place to talk and get to know each other. the mall is also a good place or a restaurant and sit at your own table but make sure mom can still keep an eye on you

Answer 9

I think shopping mall would do could

just imagine you both window shopping talking long with each other, then out to a restaurant at the mall and all that cozy talk could be gr8

Answer 10

Something casual that friends do would probably be best. Hang out at the mall, watch a movie together. Something easy with little pressure.

Answer 11

Icecream,pizza