2007-03-25 08:51:49 · 8 answers · asked by crazyrichgurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that depends on how long you two have been split up. Maybe you didnt give yourself enough time to completely move on. Also, if you left him and he still wants you back, it could just be guilt for knowing what your doing would be hurting him even though your single and doing nothing wrong. It could just be that those exciting feelings you get when first dating somebody is reminding you of how good things were in the beginning with you and your ex, without thinking about the reasons you split up and the bad stuff. Just be strong and give yourself plenty of time!
2007-03-25 09:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because until you started dating this new GREAT guy, it was not reality that you had broken up with your ex. Now that there is someone else in your life, you realize your ex is not. You need closure, see the ex again (even if it's just from a distance) or you won't be satisfied with the new guy. You may be pleasantly surprised that you feel absolutely nothing for the ex boyfriend. Of course, you may not have forgotten the guy completely. But it will take another view of him to remember what you had or DIDN'T have.
2007-03-25 16:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Many Moons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comparison syndrome. we always think of something we had when something new comes along. like an old pair of shoes that were really comfortable, but looked like ****. then again, your ex could of really been the perfect guy for you and things weren't "right" during your time. kinda like making varsity in high school. you might of been the best player on the team when you were a freshman, but the timing wasn't right for you to start. your ex seems like he might of been an okay guy, but maybe you two were under bad circumstances that couldn't help a relationship move along....
one thing is certain, if you are thinking of your ex when you are physically with this other guy, you still love your ex.
2007-03-25 15:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by BM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's completely normal. I mean...you know, he was the guy that used to fill that place in your life. Of course everything about relatinships remind you of him. Was he someone you really cared about and don't want to completely let go of as a friend? That might also be a part of it. Don't worry. It'll go away.
2007-03-25 15:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your just feeling guilty over your ex.Sometimes people mistake those feeling for something else but it's guilt!
2007-03-25 15:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must still have feelings for your ex sweet heart. It takes time.
2007-03-25 16:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by samuelmassingill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we always want what we cant have.
Dont think about going to back to him it would go nowere, remind yourself WHY hes your ex.........
2007-03-25 15:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because! You like your ex MORE! DUH!
2007-03-25 15:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋