I told someone that i love them and he said he doesn't know if he loves me or not, but asked me to wait for him. now see, i think he was using me, but i dunno because he told me to wait for him, but he's always dating other girls. i'm just really confused. should i even keep bothering with him or should i just forget it?
2007-03-25 08:49:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget it girl...were you having sex with him? If so, yeah he was using you! Trust me, if he was in love with you...He wouldn't make you wait.
2007-03-25 08:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so there is totally NOTHING wrong with telling somone that you love them, the sad part is, you don't always get the answer that you want! He clearly is confused himself, if he has other girls that he is dating, and he asked you to wait, then he is playing you! He is probably trying to find if he really wants YOU, or if he wants someone else. And if you chose to wait, then he can easily tell you, "hey I don't think that I really want you, I have found someone else", so hun, the best advice I can give ya at this time, is to move on! It may not be easy, since you do feel that you are in love with him, but with time, you WILL find someone else, and begin to slowly forget him....take it from me....someone who's been there.....
2007-03-25 15:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl_reez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with telling someone that you love them AS LONG AS YOU ARE PREPARED FOR THEIR RESPONSE. Sounds as if you do not know this fellow very well. Were you "dating" when you told him this or were you just "friends"? He is off dating others...... NOT A GOOD SIGN. He knows he has you in the wings waiting for him - while he can go off and "check out how he feels about you" !!!!
Wake up girl, you are allowing him to use you! Tell him you will not wait for him. If he does not have the good sense to recognize what he has in you - then BYE BYE BYE......
There are lots of men out there.
2007-03-25 15:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you're feeling isn't love, personally. It's pprobably some kind of love or attraction. It's easy to confuse them sometimes, when you haven't had alot of experience.
Also, timing is a big thing. Telling someone you love them is very intimidating.
If he's dating other girls, he probably was using you and it's time for you to move on.
2007-03-25 15:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dating other girls and he tells you to wait for him after you told him you loved him, that is a bad sign.
You should get him out of your life. It sounds as if he is using you. He definitely is not considerate of your feelings. This guy will just string you along as long as you will give him what he wants. He will just hurt your self image and confuse you.
Find someone who can appreciate you.
2007-03-25 15:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying "I Love You" can be a big deal because it can symbolize a big step in a relationship or that you want one. If he's still dating other girls though and he said he doesnt know, then he probably doesnt want what you do. Maybe wait alittle longer, but if you wait forever, dont be crushed if he never returns those words.
2007-03-25 15:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dating other people I would not wait for him. You should not be someone fall back plan. If he doesn't want to be with you then thats perfectly ok but, to have you there in case something else doesn't goes as plan is plain abusive.
Life is too short to be waiting around. Look somewhere else.
2007-03-25 15:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to know if you really love someone or not, maybe he just doesn't want to tell you incase he doesn't feel it yet and doesn't want to say he loves you without meaning it.. wait.. but if he never tells you it, it sounds like he isn't the one, move on if this happens hunni cus u deserve better!!
Good luck!!
2007-03-25 15:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by rebecca_05_yeha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i love you is not the same as i am in love with you. But you just for get it and if he comes around and you still feel the same way OK. But don't Wait for him. You don't want to be just a back up girl for him. OK xoxoxoxo
2007-03-25 15:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's NOTHING wrong with it, unless you dont mean it and/or feel like you have to say it. Or if you've known the person for 3 hours and you 'love them'. but I think you should NOT wait for him, move on, that will drive him crazy and make him want you even more! trust me on this
2007-03-25 15:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋