hi people......well.... i like this guy and we get on really well but he tells me all about these other girls he likes all the time . is he trying to make me jelous ?
he really flirts with me and i have tried to make my feelings about him clear but he just is not getting any of it !!
what else can i do
2007-03-25 08:44:38 · 21 answers · asked by lolly15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get neked and put out more
2007-03-25 08:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by johnis101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand trying to make you jelous if you had a boyfriend or were going out but if youre not. he probably doesnt no you feel the same way about him. some guys (i no i do) flirt without really realising it. let him no you feel that way and then see what happens you might regret it if you dont
2007-03-25 16:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by ciaran e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are jealous need to learn one thing. Jealousy is a 100% negative emotion.
If you are concerned he is seeing other women then deal with that in a realistic way. Don't become a stalker!
But do watch his behavior. Is it innocent or is he trying to 'score'?
Flirting is not bad. How the other person deals with that flirting is the as important in relationships.
Don't play games. Be yourself but you don't need to spill everything about your feelings. Hold back until you feel more secure about yourself and where things stand with this guy.
Most important, feel good about you. Think about why he or someone else would be happy to be with you!
2007-03-25 15:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Annie GH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not an imbesile, and thereby excused, of course he knows how you feel. He just loves the attention. Still want him? Ask straight out, leave your phone number, and do not speak to him ever again if he does not call you within 2 hours. Why? Because you`re worth so much more than being in a harem.
2007-03-25 16:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, men are stupid! they need clear and straightout answers, it sounds like he does like you and yes is trying to make you jelous by saying that he likes other girls. i would just simply tell him your feelings come right out with it no pussyfooting around just scream at him if you have too but if the message is still not in his head then i would just move on from him
2007-03-25 15:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by xxDiStUrBeDxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop wasting your energy on someone that does not appreciate u. He does not want any serious person. Player Player Player. Stop being available. Do other things without him knowing what u might do. Stop answer his calls. He is taking u for granted.
2007-03-25 15:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that spray can that makes a REAL LOUD NOISE!! Try that on him, he doesn't sound too bright.
Seriously, he probably likes you. He isn't trying to make you jealous, he is trying to see what reaction he gets from you. If you act like it bothers you when he talks about other girls, then he will know that you like him.
Just tell him you like him, be straight up with him, he will appreciate it.
2007-03-25 15:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you flirt with him? Maybe he doesn't realise you like him in that way. Maybe you could make it more obvious? He could well be trying to make you jealous....good luck!
2007-03-25 15:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by flowerpot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being such an asshole with you!
If you already told him about your feelings and he has ignored you then hes not worth falling for. Friends are ok but a relationship would fail
2007-03-25 16:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by pank 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
guys can be a little thick skinned at times talk about other guys see if he gets jealous if he does you know he likes you
2007-03-25 15:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by chris p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, its hard to understand guys... =( I suggest to straight out ask him if he likes you, because if you don't, he might lead you on forever, for nothing, or he might like you, and you'll never know.. =) Good Luck.
2007-03-25 15:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by ☆Danielle☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋