I think it would be fine! It may not be "traditional" but many people nowadays are creating their own traditions and rituals. Have a shower "party." Make it fun. Make it where both men and women can be there. It can be family-oriented or just couples. If there are kids there, rent one of those inflatables for them to play on. Have the food/drink be bring your own or potluck. And, *make it fun* but not too much work. Make it about YOU TWO, not about what society says it should be. Love and be happy and start now.
2007-03-25 08:49:31
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answered by daydreamer 1
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Nope, not appropriate, though I know that answer is not what you want to hear. Your wedding is so soon. In just a few weeks you will have all your friends and family focusing all their attention on you as a couple.
Even if your family suddenly threw a shower many guests may choose not to attend. The wedding is close and they are already factoring your gift, travel and attire into their budgets. It would be a burden on some to be placed in the position of buying another gift so close to the main event.
Enjoy your final planning. If you really want a shower-ish a event you could have a have a breakfast the morning after the wedding. In some regions of the US this is a common tradition. Generally wedding gifts are displayed or opened as part of the breakfast.
2007-03-25 17:00:15
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answered by Anonymous
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No. not all brides have showers. That being said, I am finding that who pays and who hosts are often very different... Have a chat with your mom, ask her what she thinks.
The idea that your MOH is too busy is lame....thats why there are other attendants, to help. Maybe they dont know you want a shower.....time for a some girl time (maybe at the house of the girl with the new baby) to chat about the wedding and possible solutions.... I hope you get your shower. If not, I am sorry it worked out this way for you....
2007-03-25 21:06:57
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answered by Sweetserenity 3
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On an etiquette basis, no it is not okay. Etiquette wise, showers are to be hosted by a non-family member for the bride.
Showers are by their nature and definition, gift grabs. Having the groom host the shower gives new meaning to the term.
2007-03-25 16:05:33
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answered by danashelchan 5
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no...that would look really bad. a shower is basically an excuse to get gifts (which is why I never had one period) and to have your fiance host it, it looks like you too only care about getting gifts which is the impression I get reading this question. boohoo if you dont get a shower. its not the end of the world. if I was invited to a shower hosyed by the soon to be husband I would toss the invite so fast its not ever funny. how tacky. have some dignity and class.
2007-03-25 20:10:43
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answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7
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Of course it's ok. These days everything is ok as long as it makes you happy. Not everyone is fortunate enough to have a family or someone who will host a shower. Forget any antiquated etiquette beliefs as well as those who will be judgemental and just do what pleases you.
2007-03-25 17:59:34
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answered by abbacat 5
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I think that is so sweet that your husband would like to host the shower for you since no one else is. Typically it is for females only since usually you play silly games and get "honeymoon" gifts. But I dont see anything wrong with it. Couldn't a family member or another friend do it though?
2007-03-25 16:03:07
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answered by DizzyD 2
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I think you should talk to the Matron of Honor and tell her that it is her duty to do it and you would pay for it if that is a problem. If none of them are planning to do it then go for it. What sweet guy you are!!!!
2007-03-25 17:44:30
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answered by Ladybugs77 6
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Do you not have any family members that could host a bridal shower for you?
I have never heard of a groom hosting a bridal shower for his wife to be!!! I don't think it would look very good and that you were only out for what you could get.
However........what will be will be.
2007-03-25 15:52:27
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answered by sonnyboy 6
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Maybe host a couples shower (or he can host it). It might look a little less odd since it will already be something untraditional.
2007-03-25 15:57:46
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answered by Nicole 3
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