This is probably a very common question, but don't think there's an answer to it, i just need everyone's advice. There's this guy that likes me, and he's very nice and sweet. I know he would do anything for me and always remembers little things, like to call me back, my birthday, etc. Our families are also very friendly towards each other and would probably jump for joy if we were together. I really like him too, but everytime he makes a move on me, or offers to take me out, I always reject him. Everyone knows we like each other, but no one, not even me, knows whats keeping me from saying yes to him. What is wrong with me?
2007-03-25 08:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by Demi Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you are afraid to start a relationship with him because you are afraid that it might ruin your friendship. I was in a similar situation. I was best friends for this guy for about 2 years and we both liked each other, but we didn't want to ruin anything. It turns out that we have now been going out for 11 months and everything is great. We didn't ruin anything, we just made it better. There is nothing wrong with waiting until you feel comfortable to go out with him, but if you like him, go for it. You have to take risks in life. Good luck.
2007-03-25 08:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotten to the point where he might not ask again out of fear. I know I don't want to hear "no" more than once. You might just be insecure or not ready to commit. You should make that clear rather than just saying no! ...or ask him to go somewhere as a group with some of your friends. Get used to being together in groups before one on one!
2007-03-25 15:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is sweet and remembers to call you back doesn't mean that you like him as a boyfriend. It could be that you like him a lot as a person.
2007-03-25 15:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol aww
nothing is wrong with you. You probably dont want to mess up things with him. You want him to be with you forever and dont want to lose him as a friend or...other lol.
Or your not really sure if your ready for this kind of relationship yet.
2007-03-25 15:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by redpoker777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you! Maybe you just like being friends or you are scared that your freindship will end if it doesn't work out between you. If you really like him and he really likes you he will wait until you are comfortable dating him.
2007-03-25 15:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well ur scraed, but maybe its tell u sumthing bout ur feeling fo rhim. i mean iof u realli liked him then u wouldve said yes in a heart beat. so think bou tif u truly like him. and if u realli do then think bout wat hes goin throu when u flurt but he asks u out and u say no! it problay tears him up inside. go for him and suck up all ur fears, build up all the courage cuz u could be missin out on sum1 incerdible to u. but think bout if u truly like him 1st. bestz luck
2007-03-25 15:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things.
2007-03-25 15:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur head. ur stupid. u can sit there and mope about urself.or. u could call him and ask him out. ur choice. u can fix feelings. but u cant fix stupid
2007-03-25 15:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋