How old is to old for me?
i'm just turned 15 and in grade 10 the guy i like has been 18 for a few months now. We got to the same school(hes in grade 12) and have been friends for the last few months and then i started hearing he liked me, and this guy is one of those guys everyone wants to date but never does guys, and i dunno i liked him a little so i hung out with him and things are going pretty good. But do you think hes to old for me and that people in our school will talk... im just trying to get an opioun from someone who doesnt know us so they cant judge
2007-03-25 08:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well three years in general isn't that big of a deal. but because of your maturity level that's what matters. at the end of this year he's going to be going of and starting a new life... (hopefully...) but I think that right now in this time in your life it is so vital that you shouldn't be distracted with guys... something that you might want to think about is he's a legal adult... he can do whatever he wants and it could deeply affect you. Just don't let him take advantage of you anf don't het your hopes up because guys like that have some kicks messing with people's hearts. good luck,
2007-03-25 08:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school, people seem to make a bigger deal about how old you have to be to go out with others. They make it seem like you can't really date people more than a year older than you. When i was a freshman, my friend was dating a senior. For us freshman it seemed cool to have an older boyfriend. For him on the other hand, his friends thought it was awkward to hang around their friend and much-younger girlfriend, which resulted in him breaking up with her because he couldn't take the pressure from his friends. What I'm saying is, in your situation, you would have an easier chance of getting hurt. He's an adult, and the maturity levels, as someone else before me mentioned, are much different. Also remember that since he's a senior, you probably wont see him much after this year because he might go off to college. In my opinion, wait until you're an adult to find an older guy. It wont be a big deal then.
2007-03-25 15:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Demi Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school I dated an 18 year old when I was 15 and there were no problems with it. As long as you don't regret anything you do with him and as long as your parents know it's fine. I know 14 year olds that date 19 year olds. Alot of it can depend on the guy and on how mature you both are. Just be careful and if he is a good guy your parents may not have a problem with it.
2007-03-25 15:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sonda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is too old for you if you truely like him. But if you are afraid that people might start talking, you shouldnt listen I mean people talk, and no one can do anything about it. Your true friends wont talk behind your back, so that wont matter. What people you don't know say about you shouldnt matter!
Also, about the age thing.... I just want you to know that it is illegal for the two of you to have sex, so if you ever think about that, think of the consequences,,, he can go to jail.
2007-03-25 16:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yh but dw cuz theres plenty more fish in the sea... i reckon he'll only let u down cuz of age gaps if he moved away where wud that leave u just think before u do nefing :)
2007-03-25 15:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is too old for you being that you are under the age 18 it is statutory rape if you date and if your parents find out they can press charges and he can go to jail for messing with a minor
2007-03-25 15:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's only two grades higher than you, I'd say if your parents are okay with you dating then its alright....but DO NOT go for a guy any older than him, that'd be disgusting
2007-03-25 16:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a little too old for you..especially since he can go to jail for statutory rape
2007-03-25 15:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Suzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is too old for you... he will be in college next year and wont even think of you once he is out of high school.... dont date him, find someone your age
2007-03-25 15:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope my ex was like you when i was in high school
2007-03-25 15:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋