OKay, well the other day, me and my friends went to the mall, and we saw the guy that I REALLY like there. We started hanging out, and messing about and it was soooo much fun. Me and my friends went back to one of our houses and we called him playing TRUTH (asking all theese questions) My friends asked "Would you ever date "benz ?" and he said "Yeah, probaly" and later on he said his top 2 girls were me and my friend. Then my friends pretended that I was out of the room (while actually still there) and said "I think that "benz" likes you but she hasn't said anything to me yet, What would you do if she asked you out?" He said, "I would say I would think about it and then say no. I like her as a friend" Then my friend texted him and said the I only liked himas a friend and he said "Good" What is he trying to say and what does he think about me? Serious answers only, PLEASE help. I will give "best answer" to the first helpful answer!
2007-03-25 08:17:10 · 21 answers · asked by flashingsigns♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is say ing that he only likes you as a friend and does not want to date you. It is ok to just be friends---it may one day turn into something more but do not push the issue.
2007-03-25 08:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he said that he would say yes, he probably said that because he knew you were in the room and he didn't want to hurt your feelings. When you were "out of the room" and he said no, he probably didn't feel as bad because he didn't think you were listening. He said flat out that he would say no, so I wouldn't ask him out. Stay friends with him and get to know him a little better and then maybe he will start to like you as more than a friend (don't be pushy or make him feel uncomfortable). Good luck.
2007-03-25 15:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to beleive a guy when he tells you something the first time. You wrote the answer in your story. He said he only likes you as a friend. That's what he means. Ur friend on the other hand needs to stay out of it and word of advice....never let the postman deliver something that's really important to you. Meaning, never send the friend because the friend might come back with what u were interested in.
2007-03-25 15:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by MockingBird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tricky when it comes to guys and what they really feel.
But it sounds, to me, like he was wrapped up in the day and having fun with you girls. Then, after the turn the afternoon took - from just having fun to a sharp left turn to dating, he was forced to 'tell it like it is'. I truly believe that he means what he says and only likes you as a friend.
Don't be discouraged, however. This can change. Even if it doesn't, one can never have too many good friends.
2007-03-25 15:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by lola_falula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy isn't very bright. If a guy has enough nerve to turn a girl down that bluntly than he isn't going to be a very nive boyfriend. He's a guy, guys suck, but we still love 'em. But not all guys suck, some are actually kinda bright. I suggest you look for a new guy, cuz that one sucks =/
but you know, if you start being friends, he might grow to like you =) but, once a boy says he "just wants to be friends" he's gonna stick with it, had the same problem =)
2007-03-25 16:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is saying is he want to ahve you as a friend right now maybe once he gets to know you , he might change is mind and maybe not. That's a chance you have to take. But if he doesn't want to go out with you don't worry you will find someone who will want to be around you all the time. SO be his friend and go from there.
2007-03-25 15:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is saying that he likes you , but is afraid of comitment. you are one of his favorite girls. He probably doesn't want a girlfriend, but if he did want one then it would be you. He says that he only likes you as a friend because he wants to cover it up that he is afraid of comitment. If you guys are good friends, then show him that you arent going to put pressure on him about things like that. Maybe he will come around after knowing how you would really act about a situation like that. i hope i helped. and i also would like to say that you have a neato name if ur name is benz. it sounds rad. i hope i can help and i hope you like my answer a lot. teeeheeeeeeee. no really.. i hope u liked my answer.
2007-03-28 21:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by ThissGUURLL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very much as if he just wants to be your friend, and would be uncomfortable if you tried to take it further. If you like him, hang out with him and let him see what you're like. Be fun, be happy, and be nice, and maybe he'll start to like you...but don't push yourself on him or anything or he'll just run in the other direction.
I wish there was something easier I could tell you about this, but if he says he just likes you as his friend he probably means it.
-Bart
2007-03-25 15:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Bartleby the Scrivener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may just like you as a friend or maybe he likes your friend and is waiting to see if she may like to go out with him but ether way he just wants to be friends with you at this point who knows maybe that's a good place to start it could grow in to more in time or you may end up with a good friend . good luck and have a great life
2007-03-25 15:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask the guy out and see what he says if he says no then that means you guys just dont match for each other. I hope this helps
2007-03-25 15:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋