ok a fancy this boy whos 15 im 14 but we are in the same year sometimes when i talk or look at him he smiles or turns red a bit but if i frown at him or look blank he would do the same thing, we never talk he knows i fancy him but im too shy to speak to him but all we say really is hi occasionally. anyway how do shy guys act around or show girls that they fancy 'em or if he knows and everyone knows i fancy him and he doesnt talk to me and gets embarrassed or something. can you like someone as a mate and get shy of them. this boy once came to my house wid his parents coz he was invited by my dad but we didnt talk the only thing we said was hi and bye but he looked really nervous when he ws sitting opposite me, sometimes when i look at him he looks back or sometimes he just looks straight but not at me and he only talks to me when necessecary and he helps me sometimes with things i cant do well, we speak on msn and his friends embarrass me in front him he just smiles or doesnt do anythin
2007-03-25 08:15:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to get a coffee (or whatever) with you tomorrow and when you're out together, ask him if you can date. Let us know how it goes.
2007-03-25 08:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the looks of it, it seems a bit like a 6th grade crush, but instead you two are in 9th grade. I guess you should elaborate a bit more on YOUR history and how you've dealt with boys in the past. It does seem like this is your first encounter with a boy?
And as for the shyness, everyone goes through a period when they're shy about the people they "fancy". But do know that relationships don't form from the people you "fancy" but rather after you have gotten to know their personalities and just about them in general. Try to talk to him. Try to bring up a conversation about a teacher you both have or something like that for starters. If he doesn't seem to like to talk or confront you, then find a boy who isn't so shy...
2007-03-25 08:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Signed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy likes you but he is as shy as you are and doesn't know what to say after saying Hi. So next time ask him if he wants to walk with you at school and talk with him and soon he will start talking too.
2007-03-25 08:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes really shy and doesnt know how to act around gurls because he is nervous. but if u say he smiles when u smile at him and he turns red then i think thats a sign that he fancy you
2007-03-25 08:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by sexyjasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting skinny won't make your penis improve greater, even though it is going to look bigger. There ought to nonetheless be some turning out to be happening by way of fact your in ordinary terms sixteen. yet 3 a million/2 isn't decrease back, think of of thinkness, and you will ought to artwork on a technique.. it isn't the dimensions that concerns, that's the way you employ it
2016-10-01 11:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SOOOO FAMILIAR WITH YOUR PROBLEM!!!!!!!!
You see you have to act quickly.
I met this girl and we both liked eachother a lot, but......we were very shy.
Months passed and we never talked about a relationship or about our feelings.
When I finally got the guts to tell her I wanted to date her she rejected me. That was the saddest moment of my entire life, I'm 14 too by the way.
So my advice is that you have to tell him how you feel ,and I know its not going to be easy but YOU HAVE TO! otherwise your prince charming will get sick of waiting and he might move on to another girl.
Good Luck
2007-03-25 08:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by pank 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try becoming friends with him. If you're friends with him, he'll be less shy and you might have a lot in common. Shy guys usually aren't that shy once you get to know them, so he might tell you if you get to know him better.
2007-03-25 08:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by pulp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thing you have to force yourself thinking at smth else.at the moment this guy do not give u any understandable signal.i think u should really focus on smth else to see if he makes any move towards you.at least u dont have to spend ur time just thinking of him.
2007-03-25 09:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon he likes you but if you cant talk then hows it going to be when you date those long silences i h8 them im sure you do as well
2007-03-25 08:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by ciaran e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
courage is all you need. just talk to the person in question and ignore all other distractions
2007-03-25 08:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Douglas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋