I'm depressed...i get rejected alot and i don't have the strength to look for love anymore. If I wait for love 'll be an old maid. Makeup and hair can only last for so long..so it's not like that helps much.
Perhaps, i should lose some weight...i'm only like 145...omg..hides in corner.
2007-03-25 08:08:46 · 5 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to love yourself. *Sounds easy, huh? - not*. If you are confident and feel attractive, it really does radiate and make you more appealing.
What do you like to do? Do you do things for yourself? Try doing new things all on your own. Enjoy the pleasures of a hot bath, maybe get a manicure, discover yoga, or pick up an old hobby that you dropped long ago.
Just rediscover yourself. I have a feeling that you lost her somewhere along the way.
2007-03-25 08:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by lola_falula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break. When you feel more confident about yourself, you will like yourself more, you will have more fun, and you will seem more attractive... thus getting more dates and getting the man of your dreams.
It seems as if you are placing a lot of your self worth on whether or not you are in a relationship; and the other part of your self worth is related to your weight. Neither of these things is really all that important when you are doing things that you love and having a great time.
What I would suggest is that you devote the time that you would normally spend sulking or worrying on something much more positive -something just for you. If you like to read, start getting books from the library or go to Barnes and Noble. If you like to cook, sign up for a cooking class. Above all, spend time focusing on yourself, the things you like, and the things that you do well - and get out of the house. Do things that make you feel good. You will start to radiate positive energy.
Also, stop with the negative self-talk. Don't tell yourself you are fat and that you need to hide in the corner. Don't convince yourself that you are going to be an old maid - you know what they say about self-fulfilling prophecies. Tell yourself that you are a great person, you are fun, you are nice. Believe yourself. When you start thinking about yourself, realize it and replace it with positive thoughts.
Good luck to you. Remember to have a good time, enjoy the time that you have to yourself, and your perfect man will find you.
2007-03-25 08:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play to your personal strengths and have confidence in yourself.
2007-03-25 08:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Douglas M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and try again.
Also work on your self-esteem.
2007-03-25 08:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.
2007-03-25 08:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋