How do i handle this problum?

Question

Ok every single female in my girl friends family have not been faithful to there man she tells me that she is different and she wont do it I have been cheated on a lot and i am not up for getting my heart broken again also we have been planning on looking for somewhere for us to stay so we can get away from the drama and start a new life she said she would ask her moms ex friend to take us riding around but when i asked her if she asked the friend she says i dont know or i forgot this is the first gurl who i can honestly say i love and care for but i cannot get set my self up to get my heart brokening and its sad because i was upset about something this morning and while i was telling her she was more worried about a dead cat on the street so what should i yahoo help me out

Answer 1

keep on. it sounds lik u lov this girl a lot and u'll regret it if u break up because of suspicion. giv her a chance. it'l all settle in due time

Answer 2

Simply, you have to trust people until they give you a reason not to. OR don't trust people until they show you they can be trusted....usually i go with the first but always being observant of a persons' actions as well. Whether its something in your gut or an inkling, you need to follow that.

Now on the other point of importance. I have recently realized that what is important to me may not really be important to others....now the deciding comes into play when you ask yourself...Do I really want to be with someone who isn't receptive to how I feel or doesn't make the things that are important to me equally important to them?

Answer 3

Please don't blame her for the mistakes her family has made. And don't assume she's just like them. There is always someone who can break the cycle, and maybe your girlfriend is that one. Maybe she's seen all the heartache cheating can cause and she hates it as much as you do. Getting "away from the drama" sounds like a good idea.

Answer 4

gosh a dead cat is something big for some ppl, have a heart