Like fvuckin seriously, I'm 16 yrs old and all the guys at my school care about is sex, drugs and fighting. I mean, check this myspace page myspace.com/prestonsdoughboy and listen to the songs, that will illustrate my point. They're always going on about how they have all these hoez and how they're ballaz, but enough is enough! I finally feel like I'm ready to be in a relationship, but there are no good guys left! Why are people like this and what should I do?
2007-03-25 08:03:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always be a lady ,,and you will attract a nice guy,,,be a hoe,,and you will attract the male version of a hoe...the choice is yours really...the best things are always worth waiting for...don't ruin your reputation just to get a boyfriend..it's something you can never get back,,like your virginity
2007-03-25 08:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy and Cherish your youth dear. Now is the time to start preparing for what you want in the future. Take school seriously, study, look around your area and maybe do some volunteer work in a field that interests you. Surround yourself with positive people. Live a positive and healthy lifestyle. Read some great self help or inspiring books. Set goals, short and long term ones. Make a plan on how your going to achieve those goals and follow through. Go to the movies with your best girlfriends. You have plenty of time for relationships. Never lower your standards just because you feel you are ready for something. When you meet the right person for you, you'll know. Why rush? Your worth waiting for!
2007-03-25 15:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Butler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet 16 yrs. old. Hold on baby! You are to young since you know what is out there and they are going to talk about u just like the songs. Hold on to being a virgin. Wait on the Lord and be of good courage i know u want a bf. These boys have no respect. Do not get involved in these boys. Go to class and ignore them just speak and keep yourself beautiful and your school work up. Plan for college and a future what u want out of life. There are good guys out there God wants the best guy for you that deserve a good girl. Get your mind off of this. It is so many things to do find out parks, beaches, skating, bike riding, group activities, concerts, dance, art, whatever interest you have. Go to group activities where interesting people go. They even have college classes for your age to attend to reach your goals. I don't know if hanging out with to many girls is good either. Maybe 1-2 plus u enough can plan an fundraiser skating party, etc. with security.
2007-03-25 15:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're in high school and that's how most of the guys are. They're establishing their egos and things of that nature. Maybe try going to places where you can find a decent guy; Church or a good after school club. You're young, smart and seem to have your head on right so you keep your dignity and take pride in what you have. You deserve the best and you will have the best. Be strong!!!
2007-03-25 15:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to see 300 with some of my friends and behind us was a father with his three boys, and I know they were his because they all lokked just alike and they called him "dad".
Well when the rather racy sex scene came on at first he tried to cover heir eyes, then he was like " Well, you going to find out soon anyways. Boys, this is what you want. You do whatever it takes to get this, just use a condom." These boys were about an estimated 8 , 5 ish, and 3 ish. Answer your question?
2007-03-25 15:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by fenderfan823 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the guys have matured,or at least most of them. The most mature of all guys right now are probably your guy friends. They go along with the flow like the other guys ,but r still kind to u. and u wanna know why?bc sum of ur guy friends really LIKE you,but r either to afraid to admit it or have been told u don't like them that way or that they r way out of ur league. take this into consideration. there r plenty of good guys deep down out there. i think all guys can be. u just have to get deep inside their head. hope this helps cause I'm a fellow guy who's had the love of his life for a while now.
2007-03-25 15:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by ilovehur42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me...As a single male, there are still GOOD guys out there. Give it time. Let it find you...More than likely, those juveniles in your school will one day contract some disease for caring about too much sex. Teenagers now want to grow up way to fast.
2007-03-25 15:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by facetofacerules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you have the rest of your life 4 men and right now they are all immature so why go through the headache. men do not really mature until they are in there late 20's so why not enjoy being young and single. have fun and when the time is right you will meet someone. but why be weighed down with a relationship so young. enjoy from now till your in you 20's
2007-03-25 15:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Young men posturing and beating their chest? It must be a new thing! LOL
Most guys at that age are immature like that. Their hormones are off the hook and sex dominates them right now. They are nature's"b!tches"
2007-03-25 15:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by guy o 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are TONS of good men. Lots of them are immature and looking for one thing, yes.
There are loads of guys at your school who would love nothing more than to make you happy. These are the guys who are "friends" to you, the "nerds/squares/whatever you wanna call them". The shy ones..
You're not attracted to them though, are you?
2007-03-25 15:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋