Ok should I give up on like ing a guy that my friend is in love with and he is back?? I reall y like him and I can't just stop like ing him!!
Please answer!!
2007-03-25 07:49:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well wait a bit usually its just infatuation let ur friend get over him then u can go and ask him out.
2007-03-25 07:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey! It's an open arena! And it's not like your friend is already going out with him. So, it's really just first come first serve, and and if she snoozes, she loses. Don't give into toxic niceness! You will never get what you want in life if you are ALWAYS nice. And besides, it's not your fault if you get the guts to ask him out before she does, and she'll just have to get over it. But, just don't rub it in her face, cuz that wouldn't be very good of you as a friend.
2007-03-25 16:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by JustCallMeTina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really understanding your question. You like a guy but your friend is in love with him. I think you answered that already. If you like him, but your friend loves him, there you go. There's your answer. She has more feelings for him than you do.
But ultimately you have to figure out what means more to you, the like you feel for this guy, or your friendship. Many people in life have experienced attraction or even love for someone their friend is with or loves from a distance. Many have had to choose like you will have too. I think most walk away.
And I don't understand where you wrote " he is back". Do you mean he loves her back ? If you do, girlfriend, you need to swallow your feelings and walk away at a fast track. Yeah, you might could grab him from her, but do you really want to. If you do, you need to re-exam your feelings towards yourself, and your friend. Somethings up.
Good luck in your decisions.
2007-03-25 14:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by ldylopes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must think about your friend...do you really care for her and her feelings? You said that you just "like" the guy that she is "in love" with...so is your friendship worth giving up for a guy that you just "like"? You don't know where the relationship would go with the guy, but you know what you have with your friend. Please think before you react. You should take into consideration how the guy feels about her and you. Good Luck.
2007-03-25 14:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your friends shoes and ask how would you feel if she did that to you....not very good. Loyalty over a guy any day sweetheart cause at the end of the day if ur friends going to be there not this guy!
2007-03-25 14:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by MockingBird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't give up on liking someone. Just be nice to him, but don't give him definitely clear signs that you like him. Let him figure out who he likes. If it's not you, well, at least you can still be friends with him. Relationships don't last that long at your age anyway.
2007-03-25 14:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes her and she likes him, you probably should. I guess what you should really be asking is: is this guy worth it? worth a possible rejection, worth losing your friend over. If you find someone else, maybe everyone could be happy. But if you persue this, someone's gonna get hurt. Maybe you, maybe your friend. And maybe both. I've definitely known guys to play friends against one another so they get the best of both worlds.
2007-03-25 14:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by cilsavon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For now u should giv him up. it would be heart break for ur friend if she found out u liked him. if it helps any, try looking for a different guy to get ur mind off of him. if u cant get ur mind off of him. always keep an eye out for their break up. although that would be mean. its best to let them be, there's probably a better guy out there for u to chose from. he cant be the only 1 u will ever lik.
2007-03-25 14:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...
If you're under 10, yeah. It won't last anyways
If you're 10-14, it depends on wheather you like your friend or not...
If you're 15+, it depends on weather you like the guy or friend more?
My best bet: Forget the guy. Your friend is more important than ANY guy!
2007-03-25 14:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Emily A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend that ur in love with him and didnt noe how to tell her because she also likes him try to make up a choice wwith out ruining ur friendship
2007-03-25 14:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Nelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋