she gave me for our 11 months a card saying how me n hur r ment to be together and tht she will love me forever.2 days later she breaks up with no explantion. i got an email today saying that she still loves me and everything and shes srry she hurt me but she needs time.what does she need time for?and why did she break up so suddenly like that?
2007-03-25 07:43:04 · 21 answers · asked by ilovehur42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she has alot on her mind or is afraid that she is feeling so strongly about you.just give her time if she says she still loves you then wait for her she'll solve watever problem she has on her mind.
2007-03-25 07:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please look at what you have done for your side of the realtionship. Have you been a great boyfriend? I am in the same situation she is right now...My boyfriend, I love him so much, but he just isnt who i thought he was/used to be. All he does is hang out with his freinds, never gives me compliments and just isnt a good guy anymore. I know that when i tell him he will feel the same way you do. I am not saying you are like him at all, but you may want to look at your contribution to the relationship. If you are meant to be, she will return to you. If i can give you ONE advice, DONT call her...Space means space, give it to her. When she doesnt hear from you she might worry youve moved on. I mean it, dont chase her, you will drive her further away. Good luck.
2007-03-25 07:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nursing4me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes us women start thinking.." Is this really what we want?, Are we sure that we are where we want to be? " Sometimes we scare ourselves getting so close so we break it off rather quickly so that we can give ourselves a so called "reality check." I'm sure she probly still has feelings for you. Just give her the time she needs. As the old saying goes if you truley love something let it go and if its meant to be it will come back..
2007-03-25 07:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by sugar/spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient....if she truly loves you, she will come back. She may be confused about her feelings or just scared of her feelings. Just love her and let her know that you are there without pushing. If she doesn't return, then she probably never really truly loved you, because real love doesn't just go away. Real love never dies, it only grows. I wish you the best and I hope it all works out the way you want it to.
2007-03-25 07:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to break it to you, but maybe she thought you guys were going to fast.Girls can be very sensitive about that.If you really don't want to break-up, than just wait for a week, and e-mail her telling you how you feel.Once she has had some time, she will be back into your arms in know time.Sorry that you are having trouble!Hope this helps!
2007-03-25 07:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably some really hot guy got her attention... and maybe her relationship with you got stale. Do something exciting/romantic/special to let her know you want to keep her. Did you really let her know how much you loved her or did you just assume she knew? Were you more interested in hanging out with your male friends than her? Not inviting her along? Girls tend to stray from time to time if they are feeling neglected or unappreciated.
2007-03-25 07:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to get the answers to those questions from her...we aren't psychic so can only speculate at best, but not knowing anything about either of you other than that you were together for nearly a year, that's just not enough to start guessing why she broke up.
Best to get it from her, and not wonder any more.
2007-03-25 07:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well man, I have been down that path b4... She is still in love with U like she says... She is just scared... Maybe she never felt anything like this b4 when she is around U, or she never had a b4 quit like U... Just give her time to sort out her feelings... Only time can tell...
2007-03-25 07:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a storm you really need to wait out. Don't push the subject and in time things will work out if you two really love each other.
2007-03-25 08:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs time to decide weather or not your the guy she wants to stay with cause she is scarred that something is going to go wrong and she may feel like everyday is routine because you have been together for so long and after a while you started to do the dame things everyday........ my friends going through the same thing and that is why she did that to her bf
2007-03-25 07:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had a one night stand with someone else. I got 5 letters for you V E G A S. Go with your friends get away and let some steam off. Doesnt mean lay the wood to someone but you need to get away and clear your thoughts. If you are a good guy that someone special will eventually find you. Remain confident but not cocky and just be you.
2007-03-25 07:47:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ponch 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋