Me and this guy have been havin sex for about a year (basically im a a bootycall) and were together all the time and hes got a gf but he always comes to me just to hang out and be together and just out of the blue he said were gonna have to stop doing this (havin sex) and i said why and he said because hes likin it too much and im too hot but since its been over a year ive fell for him and i thought he felt the same but i just dont understand if he likes it and im hot then why all of a sudden does he want to stop?
2007-03-25 07:28:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all why would you let yourself be just a "Bootycall"? Cmon! It's not like your unattractive! You are and he's told you that! He's using you as a trash can! When he feels like dumping his load he calls you! Care about yourself more than that! If you think he wants more from you your wrong. He's getting what he thinks is the best part of you and your degrading yourself for him. If you want anything from him believe me he wont "ever" give it to you! When a man has sex with a woman its for two reasons. Either he likes it and wants a commetment or he likes it and doesn't want a commitment! Its that simple. Im sorry to have to say this but "you can't turn a whore into a house wife but you can turn a house wife into a whore" He has a girlfriend! Duh! Dump that two timing loser and go after someone who will respect and treat you like the "Queen" you are!
2007-03-25 07:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by johnnie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Imagine that he brakes up with his gf and you get together. How would you ever know for sure he isn't cheating on you?
You shouldn't ask yourself why he decided what he decided, because you can't possibly know. Maybe he's a coward and doesn't have the guts to leave a safe and sound relationship for a risky one. Maybe he has been lying all the time and he just wanted sex. Maybe he just got bored...
Anyway, it's certain that you shouldn't believe him too much. He told you he is starting to enjoy too much and that's the reason, but that's pretty absurd, don't you think? If he likes you, than he should dump her for you, and not vice versa...
2007-03-25 14:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Here's...Johnny!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a "girl on the side" takes a lot of effort. The lying, the covering up lies, hiding evidence, etc. It's too tiring. He may be worried he can't keep his gf in the dark much longer. If he was gonna choose you over her, he would have by now but she is giving him something you are not. Money, a home, stability, or a relationship his family and peers would approve of. Something. Be the gf for somebody else.
2007-03-25 14:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by jax0817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
psychology! what hes doing is telling you to go away, at which point you "feel" this way. now he can basically avoid you for as long as he wants and then get drunk some night 3 or 4 weeks from now and come over and confess how he misses you, get some, and then leave in the morning(or that night) saying how he shouldnt have done it, after which he may or may not call. either way, hell be back over and over until you call it quits.
2007-03-25 14:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by mr e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want a guy that is constantly
cheating on his g/f ??
2007-03-25 14:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you ain't married- don't do it---warning!!
2007-03-25 14:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by ty guy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋