My boyfriend & i have been dating for a month now & we never talked about marriage (until someone mentioned it to me & we had chatted about it). He had said that he is scared of getting married because what if later on in life while still married has something on the side (which he is scared of doing because he does not wanna do that). He says before he gets married he also wants to do a few things.
We have spoken about things. One of his pals had a bachelor party at a strip club which i was okay for him to go (the way i see it if i tell him no he may still go ahead and do it anyways). So we are quite open in that way. He is going away with the boys for two days to the coast.
Should i be worried as a few days before we were chatting about been together long term???
2007-03-25 07:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have gotten comments from friends that we make an extremly goodlooking/cute couple together. We got people telling us that when we together at the mall or just out with friends. The thing is that we get along very well as well.
When he chatted to a cousin of mine he referred to me as his better half.
2007-03-25 07:24:14 · update #1
I'm not sure what you mean but I don't think you should be worried too much. I take it that you mean he doesn't want to cheat once he gets married? Guys like that are worth the wait. You've only been dating for a month, so he doesn't want to take it to the next step yet. Look, if people are saying you two are a cute couple together, that has to be something in his mind. He won't withdraw or turn you away. But, he'll probalby like to take things slow, especially if it's about marriage.
2007-03-25 07:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Mehnaz
I just thought to read on to the questions u hv posted.
Can you be more clear about what is the thing that worries him. Until and unless we dont know the exact problem, solution will be far from realism.
Relationship is something where trust is the most important thing. I think you have the right to know the reason.
2007-03-27 01:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happen to me. People said the same thing and we get alone fine, your better have. But we are not meant for each other. It is to soon to me so serious. What he is telling u already u are to serious he likes u but he is not feeling like marriage or serious relationship like u. He wants to breath. You get a life do things on your own. Serious to soon.
2007-03-25 14:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋