I've been talking to a guy on msn (i do already know him from home. its just cos hes at uni) and he recently told me that he really likes me and he wants to out and i replied back that i liked him too.
However, when i told him this, he said that he wasnt really date material at the moment and that long distance relationships were really hard to keep up but if i wanted we could go out when he comes home. Also he said that if i didnt we could still be friends and meet up sometime.
Then I told him that i did want to go out with him and ever since hes been talking to me about his fantasies with me! I havent mentioned anything about sex to him and when i told my friend, she got really worried (as all friends would) that I may lose my virginity just to please him and not because i wanted to.
He assumes (i think) that we would eventually have sex which i dont mind but im still unsure whether he really likes me or if its just to get me into bed!
What do you guys think?
2007-03-25 07:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by Sophie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think women should follow their intuition, and it seems to me as though your intuition is telling you that this guy is a creep and just wants to get you into bed.
I would tell him that your feelings have changed and that you are just good with being friends, and if something develops later, cool. If not, then you know that he was just in it for the sex.
However, if he sticks around and actually shows you in person that he cares and wants to try to be together, then maybe he does really like you. I would give it awhile though, cause as a guy it sounds to me like he just wants sex.
2007-03-25 07:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by J.R. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better mind having sex before there is a committment.Thats like allowing people to try you out like a used car,someone may eventually buy you, then you may sit on the lot and rust while being "tried out".Not to mention getting pregnant and dumped, or a disease.Tell him NO SEX until AFTER the I do's have been said and you have been pronounced some man's wife.Youll see what he likes you for then.
2007-03-25 14:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im happy that you see it.. you dont want to but you do.. he is playing you.. see first thing is he has to get you to say you like him(and he did) then tell you straight he isnt long term relationship(and he did) and your not realy dateeing and you never did anything sexualy yet... but he is telling all these sexualy things and "fantasies".. then he is preping you for a sexual encounter.. ya know.. he cant talk all sweet and never mention sex then show up and ask for it... he is preping your thoughts of the date.. sorry but he just wants to get into bed with you.. and if most of your talking is over msn.. he more then likly has another girl closer to him where he is at.. sorry to tell yeah but he might like you but if he realy did he would want to be in a relationship with you.. it sounds more like he just wants a relationship with your pants off.. dont let this be your first get a guy you love... cause your first will hurt ever so much.. and it might not even happen when you first try.. does he even know your a "V".. that might be something he should know.. cause it makes a bg difrence.. and he might or might not want you anymore after that fact.. cause is harder to have sex with a "V" and not as much fun... cause it hurts her.. good luck and my best advice.. find a man that doesnt talk about sex so much until your the one that brings that topic up. cause abviously thats whats on his mind the most. good luck
2007-03-25 14:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you already know the guy and its not some new random guy you met online.If its about sex, and you dont mind just do it.
2007-03-25 14:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Joe W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it sounds like thats all hes in for.. no reason to be talking about sex yet... make sure you let him know up front where you stand on it and then if he still talks to you and wants to go out, then you know hes there for more.. if not... you obviously got your anwser..
2007-03-25 14:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might date him win he is in town but you already no the answer . don't give your self until you are sure and ready for that.use you judgment sounds like you have had good judgment so far. you will no when and who when the time is right.
2007-03-25 14:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by janelle p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u young lady?!!
I think u need to grow up a little bit & be more carefull about urself, & ur life.
I think ur friend is right.. so listen to him/her.
2007-03-25 14:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by lamo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋