2007-03-25 07:09:39 · 15 answers · asked by dodgers10 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you trying to get your ex back? Did you mess up or did your ex mess up? If you were at fault and want a 2nd chance perhaps you can start with saying I'm truly sorry and I love you with all my heart and ask what you can do to correct the wrong. Then the ball is in their court and it's up to them to decide if forgiveness is a possibility. If your ex messed up and caused the breakup you need to decide if they are really worth the heartache they'll probably put you through again. In either situation being romantic now probably wont mean anything. My ex husband had several affairs and I forgave him because we had kids. I tried to romance him by getting a real nice hotel room, and I thought a romantic dinner and sexy outfit would help. He used me for the night and moved on.That's when I realized that no matter how romantic I was..........it was over. Move on with your life and learn a lesson from this experience. And by the way, don't keep calling your ex or stalk them. That's a total turnoff. Maybe time apart will help.....Good luck.
2007-03-25 07:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by budred 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Isaac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your girl I wouldn't take you back. Once an ex is always an ex. Why would I want to go backwords for? Why the hell did you break up w/her anyway? She's not gonna take you back after all the suffering you put her through. And if shes does shes a desperate ****. Sorry.
2007-03-25 07:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing man if shes an ex theirs a reason either your s or hers move on their are so many good women out their when you find one thats worth it you wont have to ask a question like this you ll just know what to do.
2007-03-25 07:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by jmcgraw1975@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she's your ex for a reason. Move on, there are millions of women out there. Why stick with just one flavor?
2007-03-25 07:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. King 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never tried to get my ex back - I take the term "ex" seriously.
2007-03-25 09:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to date someone twice? if you went to a car wash and they dented and scratched the chit out of you car would you go back??? NO......and Im sure you value your time more then your car. but if your so deadset on getting back w/ her first you need to know why it ended (assuming she broke up w/ u)! and if she gave you the "its not you its me speech" then your hopeless! move on w/ ur life I know its hard but theres nearly 3 billion women in this world why waste your time w/ one that doesnt appreciate you?
2007-03-25 07:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If you grab the milk carton and the milk is sour, do you put it back in the frig and hope it will be better later? Same thing applies.
2007-03-25 07:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wrote a blank check
2007-03-25 07:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kermit renversant de corporation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remembering her birthday is important but so is taking he somewhere, doesn't have to be alot of $ just someplace that means something to you guys
2007-03-25 07:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ra Cha Cha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋