help me girl trouble!!!!!?

Question

i met this girl through my friend shes called lucy. shes really nice and beautiful and we started talking on the internet then flirting. we arranged to meet up on the weekend. shed seen my pictures and id seen some of her and we both liked each others personality and looks. we met up and it went well we talked and kissed and i asked her out. she said yes. when i got home she had sent me a message saying she doesnt want to date me she doesnt even like me and i was a bit confused. so i tried to contact her and she blocked me so i cant even contact her and ask why shes being like this. the date went better than well and im really confused. i feel like im gunna die. the last few relationships i have been in have ended badly on me. so im really discouraged what should i do??

Answer 1

gosh, that wasn't nice of her, i think you got to take an hint but how about you don't contact her at all, and in a week or so, if you hear from her, then maybe that would let her explian why she was being like that, if don't hear from her, then its best to move on. hug hug from mr to you.

Answer 2

All you can do is try talking to her and you already did that so I don't think that there is much left. I know that this isn't the most appealing thing but you need to leave her alone until she is ready to talk to you, if ever. Maybe you could send her an e-mail explaining yourself and how confused you are but don't accuse her of anything or else it will just push her away even more. Other than sending a message, I wouldn't suggest trying to talk to her like going to her house or anything because then she might take it like you're obsessed. Whatever her problem is, she needs to figure it out before telling you, if she ever will. You also need to think about what will happen if she does talk to you. If she has a reasonable explanation for what she did, take it into consideration, but otherwise- do you really want a girl who plays mind games like that?

Answer 3

She doesn't sound a very nice person if she can't even give you a reason why she's acting like this. Best thing to do would be to try and forget about her. Tell your friend to say to her how upset you are at the way she's treated you and that you won't be bothering her again. Sounds like she's a bit strange. You deserve better. Keep your chin up and someone will come along when you least expect it. Don't let youself be treated badly - you're better off on your own than being used or mistreated. Good luck x

Answer 4

Hi. This girl just didn`t want to let you down face to face - simple as that. That doesn`t make her a bad person, but it does mean it`s time for you to forget her. She so obviously was not impressed or interested, and now she`s being a coward by ignoring you. There are millions of girls out there, and it`s not like you`ve got 2 heads or anything - you were nice looking enough for her to come and meet you.Just because this one didn`t work out it doesn`t mean the next one won`t - and as they say, there`s a lot of fun in trying ! Don`t be downhearted - move on. You certainly aren`t going to die, and a lot of relationships end badly. I would say to you - don`t move so fast next time - keep the girl guessing if you`re going to ask her out again - make her wait at least a full day, then send a message saying something like "it was fun yesterday, would you like to do it again some time...?" You sound like a really nice person, so it`s her loss, just hang in there, and better luck next time.

Answer 5

Hi.you say the last few relationships you've been in have ended badly for you ,if this is the case its time to take a good long look at yourself. Are you meeting the right sort of girl ,? someone who shares the same interests as you . Are you giving the girls whom you meet on the internet the wrong impression and description of yourself. Hows your personal hygiene?Unless you're extremely unlucky you have some sort of problem. Look for it and put it right . Good Luck.

Answer 6

That was rather gutless and cruel of her. Chalk this up to a bad experience hun. Don't lower yourself to contact her as she has now made it clear that she does not want to see you.
It would have been better if she had told you face to face but some folk can't do that.
She took the cowards way out by texting you.
Don't be discouraged as there will be more young ladies.

Answer 7

I would try to forget about her if she is totally ignoring you without reason and hasnt got the manners to tell you why your better off out of there. Maybe she already got a b/f keep looking never give up the right person is out there for everyone, you'll meet her when you least expect to.

Answer 8

oh please do not feel down.i know it s hard to accept what i'm gonna tell u now but its true.sometimes girls are just kind to guys no to make them feel bad at that moment.they smile and tell you they like u.yes they can even kiss u.i hear of this situations many times.the fact is that man and women never understand each other.forget her,since she was so rude to u,and think that as long as u 'll look desperately for someone u'll never find the right person.be more open and friendly to everybondy and u'll see u'll find someone very interested in u.it takes time.love is special.it cannot happen every time we want.its not a toy.be patient mate:).

Answer 9

maybe this girl felt like she could not tell you that she did not want to date you because she was right there in front of you. i suggest you not try to date girls off the internet. a lot of people are fake over a computer. just go out to parties or hang with a new set of friends. you will be surprised at the different girls you will meet.

Answer 10

Why don't you take a time out for awhile. Perhaps you need a break. Take yourself out on a date. Go to a movie alone or some place you like for you. You might just really like yourself a lot more then someone else.

Feed yourself some good energy.

Answer 11

You should wait for her to contact you. If the date went well and it seemed she was interested in then maybe someone else got on her computer and was pretending to be her. And she thinks that you don't want to talk to her anymore. Try contacting her again and she doesn't write back then maybe she's not that interested in you or maybe she wants another boyfriend.