ok I am in a sorta long distince Relationship and me and my girlfriend have a problem with her dad and we keep on getting in little fights and i keep on making her get hurt by her dad and i can't bearit anymore HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-25 07:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by the biggest BYU cougars fan!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, I am a spring of knowledge about this situation.
My girlfriend has a very strong willed father, and we have been in a long-distance relationship for a year and a half of our two and a half years together.
If by hurt you are talking about physical violence or emotional abuse, then you need to gently, and I mean GENTLY, get your g/f to come forward to the police or a teacher/counselor for abuse.
Provided that the situation is just that her father does not like you and her being together, the best thing you can do is to treat her like a princess, though you will have arguments. When you show her father that you will do anything for the best of his daughter you will be surprised at how his mind will change concerning the two of you. Fathers are naturally protective of their daughters, and in his eyes no man deserves his daughter, so at times it may happen that you will have to not reveal to your g/f the way her father makes you feel.
I'm not suggesting that you bottle things up, rather talk with someone else about it to get it off of your chest. Your girlfriend's father is probably her personal hero, as many fathers are to their daughters. So know when you make him look bad in her eyes she is going to defend him tooth and nail. So do your best to care for your woman and to show her father the type of man you truly are.
2007-03-25 07:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by J.R. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation to be in. If you really care about the girl, you have to get through this together. If her dad is hurting her, don't talk to him but ask her to talk to him about it. If you keep fighting constantly, maybe you two aren't cut out for each other. It's not what you want to hear, but it's true.
2007-03-25 14:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...more info please.
How do you keep making her get hurt by her dad?
What are you doing?
As far as long distance relationships go, if it's going to be a long haul..it's hard. Long distance relationships create false intimacy.
2007-03-25 14:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by tragedys_kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why you like her but long distance relashinships never last long if her dad is the problem call him and ttellhim why you like her maby hell come through to you and her
2007-03-25 14:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you care too much about her to know that you are getting her in trouble and that you think this "long distance" thing isn't working out and ask her what she thinks you guys should do.
2007-03-25 14:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by gina_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋