ok, I am Croatian, and I love this girl, I went to visit for a month in Croatia and when I first saw her, I knew she was the one? then her friends keep telling me that she already had a bf, later on she saw my mom, and she asked where I was? isn't that kind of weird, is it true that girls keep saying they have bf's, but they really don't, just so that you will take them, please help, what do I do, do I risk not having her, or should I go for it directly?
2007-03-25 06:52:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a girl says she has a bf, they are either not interested in you, or they really have a boyfriend, or both. If she doesn't say she has a boyfriend but her friends say she has one, then, she is still in the game.
If you want to be a gentleman about it, just remain in contact as "friends". She might change her mind about her current boyfriend, she might marry her current bf, or she could start to date someone else, or you may find someone else to be obsessed about.
Just tell her you adore her and you would want to know her better. Let her decide. Don't let her friends decide for you. If she then tells you, she already has a bf, then you tell her, you would want to stay as friends and wait for you.
I've been where you are at. Don't you hate it when your hormones are surging but the other party is not available.
2007-03-25 06:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kitiany 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k here's the thing, nothing good comes w/out a fight, nothing good ever comes easy, so if u really love her, really, then be her friend, and wait for her. when she's single or if she is ask her, out cuz really what'dya have to lose? dont pay attention to her friends, pay attention to HER. ask her if she's single, if she's not just be friends and maybe u'll get ur chance one day. but i think u should def. ask her instead of her friends. and where is croatia? i forget, thats like in SA ish right? or carribean...right? god d@mn why cant i remember this?!!??
2007-03-25 06:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by choux pastry heart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even if she has a bf, he may not be the "love" of her life. I think you should make some efforts and show her your interest; if you think she's the one of course
2007-03-25 06:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by cosmicwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont risk not having her.if you feel this special.go talk to her. and then liike youll figure out whether he likes/loves you or whether she has a bf or not
2007-03-25 06:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by SOMEONE! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her point blank its better to know the truth then beat around the bush and pine for her
2007-03-25 06:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by going2md 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it if she does have a b/f that would be her fault if she got wit you but id go for it
2007-03-25 06:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by ttbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait.... talk to her.... things will just fold out
2007-03-25 06:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sarie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋