How can i stop?

Question

My boyfriend always goes to his counsin's house and he stays there till late at night. And he calles me before he goes there or when he gets there but then he tells me that he'll call me later , and sometimes i tell him to call me later because i dont want to be annoying and make him stay on the phone the whole time while he is with his friends. Lately he doesnt call me back, or he texts me when he gets home which around 12:30 AM - 3 AM. and i would be sleeping at that time. And sometimes he promises me that he will call me and he doesnt. He has done it before and i ignored his calls he kept on calling me and leaving me voice-mails and sending me text messages, saying sorry and all that, but still He always do it, everytime he does it he says sorry to me and i forgive him. but this got to STOP now! because he is taking advantage of this, always sayin sorry and i always forgive him.what should i do? Should i ignore his calls today and pick up tomorrow? i need 2 do something so this STOP

Answer 1

Yeah my boyfreind does the same thing well he should have like one night of the week that he can hang with his buddys and u can have a girls night but make shure this anit every day just give him sometime to be with his freinds yea i would do that and if u calls you or what ever just be like oh were you worried and be like u do this to me all the time... good luck♥

Answer 2

Thats a tough one.

If I was in your shoes. I would get extremely mad at him, tell him how you feel. Get your point across, and then say "I cant talk to you right now, I dont know what to think about THIS anymore"

And then hang up, and dont talk to him for the rest of the day.

That may be a little immature of me, but honestly I am with a 42 year old man, and its the only way to get through to him. I dont think it changes from when their 18 or 60. Sometimes the only way they learn is guilt of thinking they really hurt you.

Answer 3

I think you just need to put it to him the way you did in the question. Let him know that it's really bothering you and he needs to knock it off. That way, if he does it again, you'll be justified in ignoring his calls.

Answer 4

Stop picking up his calls all together.
Call him and say me and the girls are heading out don't wait up, maybe i'll call you.
Then hang up.
CALL BACK AT 4AM THEN SAY, WE WHERE HAVING SO MUCH FUN I FORGOT.
SORRY FORGIVE ME
THEN SAY YOU DO IT ALL THE TIME, I THOUGHT IT WAS MY TURN.

Answer 5

2 options
1. break up with him. if he doesnt respect you enough to give you 5 min in a phone call he doesnt deserve to have a gf.

2. get over it. he obviously isnt going to change. so accept it and move on.

pretty easy huh?

Answer 6

Just tell him that this has to STOP, and STOP right now, or it will be over between the two of you. And mean it, stick to what you say. Good Luck.

Have a nice day!

Answer 7

Stop talking on the phone with him.
Only do so face to face.
No phone/ text messenging.
Maybe he can spend more time with you.

Answer 8

The road-walker will find his road out to the top of the mountains he seek...

All the best.

mk

Answer 9

time to cut it off. sounds like a no win for you. don't take his calls or his messages. start over you need to have life to. sounds like he has his own life and he is not inviting you in..

Answer 10

yeah. you should do exactly that. Give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts. Then tell him you're sorry and can he forgive you.