am i a bad boyfriend?

Question

i love my girlfriend but i think im a bad boyfriend. i tell what to do all the time. im selfish. i tell her not to talk to certain guys, but the guys i tell her not to talk to cause trouble in our relatioship. i ask her to leave her school and come to mine so we can be together, plus it'll help in our relationship. i dont let her have a myspace cuz it brings drama. and i hate it when she goes to school event like track meets or competitions. does this make me a bad boyfriend.

Answer 1

Your pretty normal in fact your just learning how to be a man. And I commend you for asking this question. You sound very emotionally attached to her and that's good to a point. A part of coming into your manhood is to learn self control. Your wise enough to answer this question and I believe you will be wise enough to come to the right answer.

Answer 2

No, it makes you a controlling boyfriend. At least you realize that this might not be how a relationship is supposed to work. You obviously have major trust issues and I would suggest a counselor. If you ever want to be truly happy with ANYONE, especially this girl, you will get some help immediately. You're not a bad guy, just a good guy who took the wrong turn down a bad road... Good Luck

Answer 3

You sound like a very dominant person and by the looks of it she sounds very submissive. Why are you being so controlling? I think that is very unfair for her. It's like she is your property or something. Look, just lighten up. She is a big girl and can make her own decisions. She doesn't need her boyfriend telling her what to do. I wish you the best of luck! :)

Answer 4

Your not a bad boyfriend, you obviously care you just need to learn to give her some space because she's her own person. I think you should let her get a myspace and start letting her do more things but first off I think she you should apologize to her and tell her that your trying to be a better boyfriend.

Answer 5

I don't think you're a bad boyfriend- you just care too much.
I think all guys/girls have this problem with their sweetie. But some just try to hold it back, and some just force their gf/bf to do what they say.
You are the second option.
You just need to back off a little. Hang out with your own friends and let her do what she wants. She's her own person, and though she may love you back and appreciates how you care for her, she can also take care of herself.

Answer 6

Give her a break! You dont own your girlfriend.To me you sounds like u are a very possesive boyfriend,U might suffocate her with what you are to her.Think again!
Love is base on trust!and making your partner happy and bringing out the best in her!

Answer 7

Yes, it also makes you a control freak. Get some counseling to figure out why you are so controlling and insecure.

If this keeps up, if she has any sense at all, she will walk away from you.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Yes, you are a bad boyfriend! She should run away from you as fast as she can! You do not own her or have the right to tell her what to do.

Answer 9

no means your overprotective.chile out.you dont own her.if you really like her you should let the reationshipe make its way through.maybe your not ment to be.maybe.we'er not as stupid as you think we are.we kno were drama is and its everwhere.you cant chnge that.sit on you *** and have a nice big talk with her.good luck.

Answer 10

I think the problem here is that you're just very possessive. You don't want to lose your girlfriend. However, you need to let her make her own choices. You can give her advice, but you need to let her be free to make her own decisions, even if you disapprove.