Why did I get so hurt when my fiancee dumped me I still love him but now he wont talk to me. Cant trust guys anymore.
2007-03-25 06:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by sugarplum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he sounds like a jerk you are better off without him
2007-03-25 06:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so hurt because you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with him. Of course you're still going to love him in the beginning. Give it sometime and don't be too hard on all guys. You'll find a better guy who won't dump you after you plan on getting married.
2007-03-25 06:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by dancemusicalsdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because your love for him is way stronger than the feelings he had for you. You wanted him for you, you saw the two of you as one, you did not think he will leave like this, leave you feeling that half of you is gone, with you feeling pain in your heart... thirsty for love... Yes it hurts, and you have so many unanswered questions you want to ask him, like "why?", "what happened", or ask him to come back. But you know, emotions don't have a logical answer, and I don't think he will be able to explain what he did, or why he did this. You can ask him, but don't cheapen your love by begging him. Try not to be alone these days, talk to people, be with friends, all of that will help you lessen your pain and move forward with your live and really find the "one" who is made for you.
2007-03-25 06:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Flyyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had the idea of being married and living out your lives together
and now he has give you head f*ck and it hurt like hell.
Give it time. Why would you want him in your life now, move on, get on with life and the pain will go, good luck
2007-03-29 02:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Busgirl2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A clean break is the easiest....maybe he knows that and to be friends just wouldn't work for now anyway. It sounds harsh but it is a reality this way the pain will be there for sure....but you can moveon.....keep telling yourself that don't obsess...not easy but with practice you can do it.....talk to your friends for support . If you werestill communicating with him it would serve to prolong the agony
2007-03-25 10:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's bodily abusive with you, what on earth do you think of he will do on your toddler? First loves are continuously idealized. you think of the international of the guy, regardless of in the event that they are certainly a ****. you quite need to pass away him. he won't replace. you may by no skill replace a individual, so please do not think of that for the period of time he could be the guy you want him to be now. refer to family contributors or friends, and notice who can take you in for the advise time. call off the marriage and sell off his sorry *** as quickly as you're risk-free with human beings you have faith. i could additionally report for sole custody of your toddler with supervised visitations for him. If he's harm you in the previous, i don't see how everyone could provide him custody. Be clever. do not pass back with him, do not hear to his sob memories, don't be on my own with him. you will desire to think of with reference to the way forward for you and your toddler.
2016-11-23 14:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be painful for you. I can see that he has distanced himself, by not talking.
You will, I'm sure, get back in there at some time in the future.
2007-03-25 06:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by lulu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get so hurt because you have feelings , this better happen now than happening after you get married that would hurt you much more , give your self time . hope you get over it soon
2007-03-25 06:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by eina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best option is to try and forget about, I know it's easier said than done. All the best =)
2007-03-25 06:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you loved him. give it 12 months and you will fell better.
2007-03-25 06:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋