why when we are single we wanna love someone but when we are engaged we wanna be single and have fun?

Question

for example when we have boyfriend it happens that we are easily attracted from other guys but we know that we can't do anything as we are engaged.when we are single all the guys seem to be ugly and annoying and silly.so we do not like anyone and we feel sad.

Answer 1

It's the ol grass is greener syndrome !!

Answer 2

The grass is always greener on the other side. Except in my case — I'm single, and the grass on the other side is covered with rot.

Answer 3

Seems your not ready yet to be engaged or married, because it's supposed to be for good. maybe. you will have to make up your mind. you can still have girls night out if you are engaged, but look and don't touch.

Answer 4

because when you are single you aren't tied down and you can do what you want plus you have higher standards, but you end up getting bored and just wish you had that one person to come home to. when you are engaged you are committed to that person and that person only and sometimes you just aren't ready to settle down.

Answer 5

you almost always
think that no matter
what the other thing
is probably better.
which is not always
true, and sometimes
you just want what
you can't have or
what you dont have.

Answer 6

its because when your single you want to challenge youself to see if the guy u want u can have.once u have him theres no challenge anymore.basically what im saying it its one big challenge . every gurl does it...once we have a man we dont want him but when we dont have a man its like we have the desire to have him.hope i helpedd

Answer 7

Its human nature we always want the opposite to what we have.

Answer 8

You want you bread buttered on both sides.

Answer 9

i've got the same problem as u... so tell me what to do!!!!lolz

Answer 10

coz you always want what you cant have!!!!!