so i called my g-f and her dad answerd and he doesn't like guys calling his doughter at all so he got really mad at me and really really mad at her and i wan't to be sorta like friends with her dad and i don't want me and my girlfriend to break up
2007-03-25 06:01:24 · 13 answers · asked by the biggest BYU cougars fan!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is something your girlfriend needs to talk about with her dad. It's hard for fathers to have their daughters dating, but the more she places herself in his shoes, the easier it will be. She needs to have a calm (!!!) rational conversation with him about where the boundaries are and what is and is not acceptable. At the same time, you need to spend some time at her house in a public place where he can see, possibly helping out, so he sees you as an asset to have around rather than a nuisance that is dating his daughter.
You also need to be realistic. Your girlfriend's dad isn't going to be your buddy. Both of you have very different interests in his daughter, and they conflict. Until you're his son-in-law, or the father of his grandchildren, he may never like you. The best thing you can do is try to get along with him and respect where he is coming from.
2007-03-25 06:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her dad's just being protective and doesn't want to see his little girl grow up. I think your girlfriend should talk to her dad about this. She can't stay a baby for ever. You really don't have much controll of this though. Its mainly between your girlfriend and her dad.
2007-03-25 06:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you call her if her father doesnt like her calling boys. But anyways tell your girlfriend that you didnt mean to call and to put in a good word for you to cool her father down..then next time try calling her house to just pow wow with her father..and have a good conversation.
2007-03-25 06:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kiana A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me clue you in on a little secret dad's are gunna be like that. they want to protect their daughters from any harm . just let her dad know that you are a good guy and prove it. once the dad is convinced and knows how you are then everything should be solid between you, your girlfriend, and your girlfriend's dad. and then no worries.
2007-03-25 06:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are she, if she is below 15, no dad will like u as long as u have been given the status of boyfriend. 17 and older I start up accepting you, yet while u youthful, screw it, he unlikely to love you. That for ur female pal to handle, in basic terms verify u provide her ammo for while she struggling with for u in front of her dad.
2016-10-19 21:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should show her dad how much of a gentlemen you are in front her and how good of a guy you are. I'm sure he's bound to forgive you. Good luck.
2007-03-25 06:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like no matter what you do right now he's gonna give you ****. Just be yourself, respectful and straighforward and at least if he doesn't come around you weren't a whipped wuss either alone with him or in front of her.
2007-03-25 06:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha thats so my dad. if a guy sits with me at church or something he gives him dirty looks and freaks guys out. lol
2007-03-25 06:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling your girlfriend's house let her call you. and if u call her anyway call her on her cell(if she got one). appologize to her father for calling her.
2007-03-25 06:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tia J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him
communitcation is
the key to everything
2007-03-25 06:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by {♥} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋