I want to ask this girl out. I am in love with her. I can't handle rejection though. We are both teens. She likes some people at my school but she never asks them out what do i do. Help!!!!! It doesn't seem like I can live without her. I always I.M. her and I always talk to her. She also always sits by me on the bus.
2007-03-25 06:00:38 · 7 answers · asked by Joe K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably doesn't ask people out because she's too shy and she's probably afraid of rejection as well. Why don't you ask her friend or some other to ask her (it's be awkward for you to ask her, you know) if she can date, if she's allowed to date. Those are the 2 major reasons why girls don't date: 1) she is too shy, or 2) she isn't allowed to date. If her friend says, yes, she's allowed to date, then why don't you ask her personally (not over im, not over email, phone, etc.)? If you're too afraid of rejection, she'll be gone and who knows? She could've said yes. So don't be scared, and just ask. If she doesn't feel the same about you, then it's time to move on.
2007-03-25 06:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by just♥me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask one of her friends get close with her friend nd ull c what she really feels its always a good way to work ur way in.
By the way you dont love her you think you do but its more of a crush or lust right now. Well unless shes a realli gd friend then u mite love her that way
Goodluck just ask her out rejection isnt bad its just a learning curve
2007-03-25 13:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing Joe, you just need to man up and ask her out. Don't worry about all of the other guys who may like her, you got the upper hand because if she chooses to sit by you on the bus there has to be something going on. First work on a friendship, if you don't have one. Then work that up to asking her out on a date, or even to be your girl. I hope this helps. If you need anymore help, my AIM name is Thirdbase4lif3. Thanks.
Jeremy.
2007-03-25 13:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by jeremy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make someone love you.. If she doesn't like you than i wouldn't even try. If she does like you than ask her out. You can never be afraid of rejection.. you'll never get anywhere..
2007-03-25 13:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to put yourself out there and tell her how you feel, hope for the best,we all get rejected sometimes.
2007-03-25 13:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you telling me that you good fiend ok I can give you same tips and romantick muves .let sher notes you
1)look in her eyes “to long” just until it’s a little uncomfortable
2)make decisions quickly and easily
3)wink
4)look in her eyes then check out her body DO NOT keap staring at her boobs do it respectful way and go back to her ayes
5)compliment her
6)whisper to her
7)BE YOUR SELF
good luck this way i gut my girl
2007-03-25 14:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by slavapaypal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you waitin for then? all the signs are there.... ask her out dude. if u get rejected see some 1 else...
2007-03-25 13:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋