I have been seeing a guy for about 3mth and we spend all of our free time together. I know I am falling in love with him, but since we met he has told me he is not ready for a relationship I know everything that he has going on and believe me it's serious stuff that if going through I would be intolerable, but anyway I know how I feel about him and I feel like I should get out of his way, but when I tried to he just blew up at me and started yelling about me leaving him were not even technically a couple we only hang out and he's made a pass at me a couple of times but I have refused I haven't even let him kiss me because I don't want to be hurt,he's told me about the girls in his past who have hurt him and how he would get back at them I don't know if he is just scared to trust me or not but I think I have more than shown him he can maybe he just needs more time to get over what he's going through I want to continue to help him with what he's going through but who's going to help me?
2007-03-25 05:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by thicknsweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to help yourself and stay away from this guy who has revenge on his mind.
2007-03-25 06:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has to "get back" at someone isn't mature enough for a relationship for one. For two, he's already getting mad at you for trying to leave when you are not even a couple... that raises a definate RED FLAG to me. Sounds as if he might be very controlling if you were to be in a relationship. Be careful with this guy because he sounds like bad news to me. I have a guy friend similar to that but I won't get in a relationship with him because of his temper and how he always takes everything the wrong way and twists my words around when I tell him something or say something to him. Just be VERY careful with this guy...
2007-03-25 06:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your job to help this guy - your first job is to make sure your own house is in order. It sounds like this guy is making you feel scared and guilty, neither of which are feelings you want in a relationship. You didn't mention the new guy that you've met, but if he's better than the current one, move on. If the current guy doesn't want to trust you, and doesn't want to let you in, don't bother with him. No matter how many problems he has, they are his to fix, especially if he won't let you help with them.
2007-03-25 06:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK,, if he wants to "get back" at girls that have dumped him,, run away. Run as fast as your little legs will carry you.
There's a reason others have left him. If you know any of his former girlfriends talk to them about the guy to get some insight of how he has treated others. Your future here is not good...
2007-03-25 06:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Blo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him enough space,stay away from him for awhile.He just told you that he is not yet ready for any relationship.Make yourself busy,I know at first its not that easy thing to do not communicating with him,but im sure you will get better.If he really likes you. he will make a move!
Goodluck!
2007-03-25 06:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT BUT YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY NOT WITH SOME ONE THAT MAKES YOU UNHAPPY.
2007-03-25 06:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋