And when I say "like", I mean, more than just "friends" ;)
2007-03-25 05:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE YOUR SElF iF THEY DONT liKE THE REAl YOU THEN THEY ARENT WORTH iT
2007-03-25 05:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who told you have to pretend to be a loser? Whoever said that is really one! Be yourself because hun, if a relationship occurs and you were pretending to be someone you're not, the gal will dump u in a flash the second you start being yourself! She will think the whole relationship was a complete lie and how is she to trust you??!!
2007-03-25 05:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by bwtiger0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretending to get girls then you still don't get them to like the real you. They like who you are pretending to be. You need to learn to be the best you that you can be and you will attract ladies that way. Get a good education, practice good manners treat ladies with respect and yourself with enough dignity to attract the attention of a worthy female. Stop playing games it does not work for either party you can attract girls with a lie but they will dump you when the truth is revealed.
2007-03-25 05:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't hv to pretend to be anything. But if you are an over confident kind of guy by nature (& that can be a real turn off), keep it low. But to be a loser, big NO NO pls.
2007-03-25 05:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you have to pretend? are you really a loser?
perhaps you should be less deceptive and be more of a man.
remember,
the men get laid,
losers are good as spayed.
i hope you'd be more honest. be more of a man, simply. besides, i don't think you'd be happy having to act as a loser when you're truly a much better person.
don't settle for less even if it's just between you and yourself.
follow your bliss.
best!
2007-03-25 05:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y would a girl like a loser
2007-03-25 05:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpeach_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you "like" the wrong kind of girls.
Be yourself because then people will like you for who you really are. It feels good to stop pretending and be true to yourself.
You will see once you are genuine you will attract the right kind of girl. And you won't have to play games because you will be real.
2007-03-25 05:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by lizE999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you are looking for a serious relationship...be aware a woman wants a winner, not a loser. If you are just looking for a sexual encounter...well..then....
2007-03-25 05:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girls you know like cute losers?
2007-03-25 05:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOUR SElF iF THEY DONT liKE THE REAl YOU THEN THEY ARENT WORTH iT
maybe the girls like you but you just think that they like you cz u r a loser
2007-03-25 05:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Hadeer H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you think that if you don't you will scare them away.
This might be due to having a mother who was hurt by men and therefore instilled in you the importance of being all nice and mild mannered.
2007-03-25 05:35:42 · answer #11 · answered by mince42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋