I've been dating him for 11 months, and he has a daughter with another girl. The other girl doesnt know about me. She calls him all the time and I've caught him numberous of times tellingher that he loves her. I love him very much. He keeps telling me that nothing is going on with them. It's hard to trust him after he's told her that he loves her. She comes over to his house every week and spends the night. He claims it's so he can see his baby. If there is nothing going on with them, why cant he tell her about me? What should I do? I've tried to leave him but he begs me to stay.
2007-03-25 05:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are pretty clearly being used. My advice would be to move on, and the sooner the better.
Whatever you decide, good luck!
2007-03-25 05:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him if he is telling her he loves her. Why didn't he stay with her or Marry her, She is probably hoping that will happen and of course they sleep together when she stays on weekends. He is with her and he is 2 timing with you, go now, you are the one who is going to get hurt, the mother of his baby is going to be in his life forever because of the child. You are a 3rd wheel. You have to leave for your own sanity.
2007-03-25 12:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, stop giving in. something is going on. there are other ways he can see his baby. he needs to stop telling her he loves her, if he's with you. and he needs to stop having lil sleep overs. he's doing you sooooo wrong. leave him. dont let himtalk you into staying.
i understand that in some cases, this happens, but dude... you need to see what's right in front of you.
he's got a kid with someone else. they're always gonna be bonded, but if he cant even tell that chic about you, then you know he's up to something.
good luck though
2007-03-25 12:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter fell for a nitwit like this one. Lose him...she has him...it will hurt, but you will be much better off....he will do the same thing to the next one he takes up with.
My daughter dumped him. He kept calling but she said no. She now has met a nice single man who dotes on her. Her former friend? Still pulling the same crap.
2007-03-25 12:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but he's sooooo cheating on u.don't fall for him begging u that's sort of pathetic
2007-03-25 12:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by wierd dork = me!!!!!!! yay!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH PLEASE! iS iT NOT OBViOUS ENUFF THAT HE STiLL HAS FEELiNGS FOR HER...U SHOULDN'T BE SO NAiVE...OPEN UR EYES AND READ WHAT U JUST WROTE...DO U REALLi THiNK DAT HiS BEHAViOR CAN BE TOLERATED? WHY THE HECK WOULD U LET HiM TELL HiS EX NUMEROUS TiMES THAT HE LOVES HER AND JUST LET iT SLiDE?
2007-03-25 12:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by i ♥ EStEBAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iGNORE HiS BEGGiNG !! iF HES DOiNG THAT YOU SHOUlD lEAVE HiM NO MATTER WHAT !
2007-03-25 12:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋