Who to chose...the beauty, the brains, or the rebel?

Question

Ok, if you have read any other questions by me, please ignore them or better yet, take the most recent into cosideration. Ok there are three girls now: the Beauty, the Brains, and the Rebel. They are all amazing girls and Prom is coming up and I like all three and....yeah. All three of them are beautiful either physically or deep down or both. But the Beauty is the most beautiful of them all but she has done some stuff by reputation that I don't like and she is not the "type" I would go for....she is completely different for me. The Brains is also beautiful and very very smart and can make me laugh...and she makes me the most comfortable but I am afraid she will be into school too much and me not enough. And the Rebel is just that...she is crazy and lives on life's edge a little too much-she is attractive but her character is sort of ...and she has done too much stuff that is bad on many different levels. Who do I pick:The Beauty (gorgeous/reputable), Brains (comfort), or Rebel (edgy)?

ok thanks guys and girls...umm just for a better understanding---this starts with prom but will hopefully blossom into something more promising :)


and I am not trying to "insult" the Beauty by saying that she is not my type but I said that because I am not usually drawn to the group of people she usually hangs out with...again sounds very stereotypical...but I am not trying to sound that way...and plus I am not very attractive (at least from my perspective... and I usually don't spring for drop dead gorgeous girls....but then again: all three are beautiful to me.

Thanks again.

Answer 1

one day at a time, mate. well, actually the prom.
to be quite honest, this is just for the prom, isn't it? go with the Brains because it seems like she'd make your prom night a very beautiful memory.

One the Beauty - she is not the "type" I would go for. - that's actually a bit insulting, going for someone just because for there looks.

On the Rebel - attractive but her character is sort of ...and she has done too much stuff that is bad on many different levels. - if she's outside your comfort zone, perhaps you should go with someone else. you have your tux, your hair, the corsage, the car to think about - and the action.


After the prom, ask again, who do you want to be with.

And perhaps you're putting too much weight on this: it's your prom night, not a wedding ceremony. Don't forget to enjoy your youth.

We just hope you're man enough for all this. Please don't be so insecure about these things. (I am afraid she will be into school too much and me not enough. - so what if she won't be that much into you - remember it's the prom. and if you want to your relationship with her to progress, then I'm sure you'll think of ways to strike a balance. Besides, you'd be lucky to find a girl who's actually into school.)
You're a young guy. Don't only think but also feel. Our emotions help in making our decisions.

And also ask yourself, "what would a free man do?" Follow your bliss.
Verdict from me is the Brains: she sounds like she's your bliss.

Answer 2

well lets check off the one that will bring the most worry to
yer life...thats the beauty--
you dont want to have a girl that everyday you wonder if she
really did the things people say she did. and its really nerveracking to have to deal with that so first jus get rid of that
next there is the rebel and the brains
now by the way you explained it, i think the brains might be prettier than the rebel, the brains sounds great but--kinda busy right? thats a situation that makes alot of relationships fall apart but if she is into you than it doesnt sound as if that would happen, and the rebel she sounds as if she could make you live a little which is great, but too much is not good, and i think that seh really couldnt last long so my pick (if i was a dude ofcourse) haha would deff be the brains, its not like yer getting married, so jus see how it go's and i hope it works out, good luck. p.s.-give me 10 points byotch=)

Answer 3

Hey, if it's just the Prom you are worried about why not invite the Beauty at least she will look fantastic in the photos and give you something to gloat about in your old age. However, if you are looking for something a bit more serious then you have to weigh up the values of each person and see which one is more equally matched to your values in life. You seem to be saying that the Brains is more suited to you. Then again they say that we meet people for "a reason, a season or a lifetime" so if this is a time in your life where you are supposed to learn lessons about yourself the best one to challenge you and give you a deeper insight into yourself would probably be the Rebel. Socrates said "Know thyself" and there is no greater way to know oneself than through other people who challenge your values and beliefs. So if you are ready for some excitement choose the Rebel.

Answer 4

I would like to relate a story to you..

It is of a wealthy man that felt he must choose one of three beautiful women to marry. One was beautiful, another a brain and the other quite wild with a promise of fun and adventure.

He loved all three and which made his diecision very difficult. So, he devised a scheme which was to give each lady $10,000.00 for their own use and each was to return to him a week later and explain the use of the money to him.

The beautiful woman spent all the money on beauty products and clothing and told the man she will always be the most beautiful woman he could want and never ever look towards another.

The brain woman invested her money into speculative stocks and did a quick turn around of a hundred thousand dollars which she invested in more stocks and a cash reserve account with her name and his name as holders and she returned the ten thousand the man gave her.

The wild one spent her money on two Harley bikes and brought him the keys for his saying they both have the finest bikes and can travel with light baggage and have fun anywhere they want to go.

With this, after considerable thought, the man decided to marry the one with the largest breasts...!!!

The moral of the story is this...whomever you date or marry, be sure it's the one that pleases you the most and you will be happy with.

Enjoy the prom and be HAPPY...!

Answer 5

It sounds like the only one you really admire is the 'Brains'. Oh and she is funny too? That's cool. A lot of the brainy people don't get asked out a lot so she will probably appreciate you more than the others. She might even inspire you to do better.

Answer 6

Take the Beauty or the Rebel...
You are looking for a good time & some sex...
You need to form an exclusive relationship with the Brains...

Answer 7

It seems that your really into the brains and school is important then boys!Beauties don't stay beautiful forever and rebels is enough said!

Answer 8

Go with the brains. You, by your own admission, find her to be the most comfortable to be with and she can make you laugh. The fact that she may be into school doesn't mean that she won't be just as into you.

Answer 9

of course the brain...if you have any problem you can share with her and maybe she can help you,if you scare she is smarter than you then you better work harder.......but if you have the mind of only play play not serious....then better choose the beautiful because you can show-off........
anyway,a couple should be in the comfort situation and not 'materialistic'

Answer 10

i dont know u well enough to answer this, ok so what did u do last friday think about all these girls and say im gonna ask complete strangers on the internet what to do? go ask ur friends