I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or been kissed. Will I ever get a boyfriend? I am kinda shy but I am NOT that bad. Just because I have never had a boyfriend now does that mean I will never get one? I also go to a small town so there is not that many to choose from and I don't really get the chance to go to different towns and meet new people. I don't really think I should be worried right now because none of my friends have had boyfriends before (except for fake ones in elementary school).
2007-03-25 04:28:09 · 32 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it. You are young. You'll meet guys. If not not, in High School. If not in High school, college. You have plenty of time, and at some point, some guy is going to be honored to be your first boyfriend.
Enjoy your life and get involved in whatever activities you enjoy. You'll meet people, and you know what? That cool female friend that you meet could have a brother or a cousin or a guy friend that could be perfect for you.
2007-03-25 04:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember being so concerned about that at 14 also and I didn't get my first kiss until I was 18. It turned out to be a good thing because I was able to focus on school, ended up getting good grades, and was able to get valueable scholarships to go to college. Just enjoy life right now and don't worry about it because you'll find someone soon enough. Besides, at your age you can't drive anywhere together anyway -- your parents would have to drive you around and that's no fun. Wait until later in high school or better yet wait until college. Relationships can be a good thing but they can also cause stress and be a negative distraction, especially for teenagers. Focus on school -- you have your WHOLE life to date! I am an incredibly shy person too and thought I'd be alone forever. That didn't turn out to be the case and I'm positive it will be the same for you! Chin up and have fun with or without a boyfriend! :-)
2007-03-25 04:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people arent even allowed to date at 14. Believe me the chances of meeting the person your going to spend the rest of your life with when your 14, is in the 1% range.
You have your whole life ahead of you, and when your 18 you will leave that town and there will be more boys out there for you to chose from.
2007-03-25 04:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fake boyfriends. lol.
take it easy. you don't have to rush. first of all, think: do you NEED a boyfriend right now? will something terrible happen if you don't get one right away?
the answer's NO. being a couple is more than just kissing. don't hurry just because you want to be seen with someone walking down the street. you'll find someone when the right time comes. i spent from junior high until i got into university without a girlfriend, and i didn't look for one, she literally CAME TO ME.
you're still young. don't rush things up, cutie.
hope this helps
best regards
2007-03-25 04:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kurisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will have a boyfriend. Don't be in a hurry, or you'll get a bad one. When you go to college, or get older into high school you'll definately have one someday. just have fun when you go out and do things, when you meet people be friendly and talk when you have something to say. if you feel inadequate, don't worry most other people feel that way too sometimes. the main thing is be yourself, have fun and be happy with yourself, and people will want to be around you and will like you for your true self.
2007-03-25 04:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by ELEcTrIc_HeD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry! You are still very young and there is plenty of time for you to have many boyfriends if that's what you choose. A lot of young people do not have boyfriends/girlfriends until they are able to drive and explore different areas rather than the people you are use to seeing everywhere.
2007-03-25 04:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by flinttownpoker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why at 14 are you worried about stuff like that? There is way more to life that you should be doing right now. Go out have fun, wait till you can drive to worry about the things your worrying about now. Cant take your mind off of it get a hobby.
2007-03-25 04:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by ski025025 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey! dont even worry about such things...i remember when I was your age-btw it wasnt THAT long ago! I felt the same way...trust me...the guy your meant to be with will come along someday and you probably have never even met him yet! Your only 14..not 34...so when you get to be 34 and havnt met anyone yet...then you can ask your self these questions. ...its extremely unlikely that you (or any 14 yr old)will meet your future husband anytime soon!When you get into highschool guys will start askin you out and stuff...just give it time...it will happen you have ALOT of dating and experiences headed your way...take it one day at a time.
2007-03-25 04:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by QueenB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay a) stop freaking out b) im almost 14 and i have never had a boyfriend c) im also shy but not that bad so maybe just start flirting w/ hot guys or wait til high school cuz i have heard it is better there
2007-03-25 04:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Starstrukk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll deffinitely get a boyfriend! lol it most likely will happen before you get out of highschool... if not GO TO COLLEGE!!! lol college is so awesome when you're meeting new people cuz its not the same highschool crap and some boys when they enter college start to think differently about girls and want to get serious. Good luck =)
2007-03-25 04:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by kmcf7188@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋