I'm single, 36, i recon i could'nt pull myself...what can i do, any ideas.
2007-03-25 04:25:43 · 13 answers · asked by Darren G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you had many relationships? could be the way you come across or you might just not have met the right person yet
2007-03-25 04:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you read - the game - neill strauss.
ill take it that you probably have.
if i was in your place id probably give the old fashioned means a chance, that is, try internet sites and maybe lonely hearts columns.
try expanding your social life and meeting as many women as possible. (youre male right? your question doesnt say).
if all that fails try going to somewhere like thailand or another economically underpeforming country where women are basically just looking for a provider (and a psssport) and theres no beating around the bush ( hehe ). at least you will have tried the proper way so who can blame you if your relationship will be based on money rather than love.
2007-03-25 04:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, poor you. Is this a recent thing, I wonder, or have you always been unlucky in love?
I would say don't bother with internet dating and chat rooms and all that rubbish, because there are far too many people who are not what and whom they say they are there. Get out in the real world, go to singles events in your area and see who you meet. (Mostly people over 50, in my experience, but never mind because they might just have a younger friend...)
xx
2007-03-25 04:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear hun is it really that bad!?
I would suggest getting some assertiveness classes as you need to boost your confidence.
If you come across as very low in confidenece then to some it can be a turn off.
36 isn't old! plenty of time to get out there and meet people.
2007-03-25 04:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its all about luck...my mom just got married yesterday in her late 40's to a man in his late 50's....LOVE can happen to anyone at any given time....just dont give up....in the mean time you need to try to have some fun and let loose....y not try out the site aff....it can be some fun
2007-03-25 04:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by kellyg18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in all the wrong places for love or just looking too hard. go out and enjoy yourself with your friends, join some clubs or volunteer at something you enjoy and maybe love will find you
good luck
2007-03-25 12:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to nightclubs and act like a ****(not that im implying that you do). if you want a real relationship, just be sensible and classy and love will find you. just wait for the right time. pulling isnt going to get you a long term relationship- just a shag and hangover.
2007-03-25 04:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too.. blank piece of paper when it comes to relationships. Life's tough huh?
2007-03-25 04:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by AL75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try pulling ya self and tell us how it go's 1 step at a time my friend
2007-03-25 04:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be u everybody has that special someone out there for them
2007-03-25 04:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by karen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋