2007-03-25 04:20:20 · 11 answers · asked by Gani 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The recipe is very simple, but also very hard. You just have to decide not to be bothered with that anymore!
Yaps, I know that it's a hard task to do it. To succeed, there are some things that you should do first.
1. Your self confidence! If you're not confident, bad energy will affect you much more. Look around you an notice all the people around you. I said ALL not just the successful ones! There must be people around you that had better opportunities in life than you did, and yet, you achieved more than they did. You're better than them, and BE PROUD OF THAT!
2. Learn to smile! It's a miracle what one smile can do.
3. Notice funny things around you! May be it's not too polite what I'm suggesting, but next time when somebody's start to complain ( it's usually about same thing that he/ she was complaining yesterday,and day before that, and day before ...) don't pay 100% attention to his/hers words ( you know already what he/she will say). Instead of that listen with 60% of your mind, and with those 40% try to imagine that person like something else ( a turtle instead of your always grumpy aunt, telephone pole instead of that skinny neighbor of yours who's always crying about lack of money, but never did anything to get proper job).
4. Be honest with them. Don't argue! Just tell people your opinion in a way they can except it.
Since I was born ( 30 yrs. ago), my grand mom was always crying that she'll die tomorrow for sure. Few weeks ago when I was leaving her place she told me AGAIN, that she'll die soon and she will not see me again. I replied to her that she's telling me that for 30 yrs already and yet she's still alive. Therefore I don't believe her anymore. I didn't hear her laughing so much for a long time. Now when I come to her place, and she starts to cry to somebody else the same thing, I look at her, and then she starts to laugh! She just says to me: " I know, I'm still alive."
5. Try to get a habit of doing nice things. It doesn't have to be much. Sometimes a nice word is enough. Did you ever felt all alone in the world, and that it would be better that you never existed? How would you feel in that moment if somebody approached to you, hold your hand, smiled to you , and told you that everything will be OK? It would probably mean more than if somebody gave you a brand new car. So why don't you do that for somebody? It's gonna be less negative energy to run away from.
6. Don't get provoked. Learn to calm yourself. If somebody's shouting at you, DON'T shout back! It's just gonna make things worse, and as long that other person is upset, the issue will not be solved. If you stay calm, other person will get calm as well.
You have to work on yourself, and try to become a stronger person. I don't know how long you gonna take to achieve that. It can be months, unfortunately for some people it takes years, but when you achieve that a big part of negative energy around you will desapire, and the rest you'll be able to handle with ease.
Good luck!
2007-03-25 07:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by meow_bi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Radiate more energy and make sure it's positive: the negative and positive will cancel and only some positive will remain.
If that desn't work, there is only one foolproof way---- whenever the person radiating negative energy comes by, start digging your nose!!! You won't feel any negative energy around for a LOOONG time after that!!!!!
2007-03-25 04:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always try to create positive energy, and to some extent the negative vibration will go away.But still some negative energy which is depth by nature will try to attack you so at time ,please pray inyourself and with little hardship ,you can also escape from the depth negative vibration.For to keep everything away from, practice calmness in you.
2007-03-25 04:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by panneerselvam s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always escape others negative energy but you can have a positive influence on others by your stronger, more positive energy.
2007-03-25 04:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get positive energy,change of place will do
2007-03-25 23:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by geet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them--u will recognise the negative energy oozed from certain type of people--stay clear from them-stay away and u will see the visible difference
2007-03-25 04:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by fahima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe urself and accept the people and the things as they are.. do not have too much expectation on any body which may bring some huge disappointments..
2007-03-26 17:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sky lark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself checked by a psychiatrist
2007-03-25 04:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by ashish s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man do meditation
2007-03-25 04:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep them at arms length and hang with more positive people.
2007-03-25 05:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋