I asked her out because I thought she liked me.. you know, the smiles, the eye contacts, the small talks and quick chats
Help me out! This is driving me crazy! I really like this girl and I would like to know what girls mean by this (turn-down-a-date-but-is-still-friendly).
2007-03-25 04:20:15 · 17 answers · asked by XLR8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course! Don't pressure yourself and her. Girls don't like to be pressured. Hang out do stuff together invite her to get ice cream something like that. If you two are truly meant to be you will go out for real. But if not well the perfect girl is still out there but don't waste you whole life looking for her.
2007-03-25 04:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by HARRY POTTER LOVER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She, at this time just seem to want a friend, so I would just be cool, friendly, say hello if you see her but don't seek her out. If there is anything more there (her side), it will happen if she thinks that you can take it or leave it. I know that sound weird but, sorry to say that, this is just kind of " the name of the game." It's not always like this, but in you're case, you wanting still a chance, this may have to be this way. Don't do the eye contact stuff either, smile (neutral,is OK) but that's about it.
Some women do play hard to get,(not saying, she's one of them)
but.............good luck!
2007-03-25 04:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont have a chance. You asked her out and she said no but you two still see each other so shes just being friendly. If you two have to see a lot of each other there should be no reason you cant talk to one another. She is not interested in dating you so move on maybe even become friends with this girl. Have her set you up with one of her girlfriends even but dont waste your time on her shes unavailable.
2007-03-25 04:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by ski025025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not in to you. She would have never turned you down if she was. She is still friendly because maybe she feels bad or feels sorry for you or she likes the attention that you give her and it boosts her ego to know that she has a guy crushing on her.
2007-03-25 04:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by MalinaB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pare, keep it cool! Don't let something like this bother you. I bet you have other things to worry about. For now, show her you're comfortable with her decision. Be close but not too close then after a bit of time, let her know you're not giving up that easily.
2007-03-25 05:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Arj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well son maybe she doesnt want to be in a relationship she might just want to hook up with you. So the next time you 2 are alone and everything is right go in for a kiss. While kissing caress the breasts and see what she does and keep going on from there. i think she wants to hook up with you.
2007-03-25 04:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by jahmezis45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer really depends on how much you like her OK...but i will tell you this...
Either her rejecting you was for real, or code for try harder but the way it seems like u like her its most likely the first.
I'm going to tell u something SO true right here man, "girls want what they cant have, and dont want what the CAN have. Wait there dont cut off contact, maybe she will see your what she wants. BUT DONT STAY ON HER AND ACT DESPERATE>>PLAY IT COOL.
2007-03-25 04:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She values you as a friend, but who knows, maybe she didn't want to date you because of some bad habits or some weird reason. Keep being friends with her and maybe she'll have a change of heart.
2007-03-25 04:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ansia 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe latter down the road but not right now,but heres a big hint don't just be her friend in hopes this will be more.
2007-03-25 04:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by loving U 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just wants to be your friend,she prob does'nt want to lose the friendship,thats why she is still being friendly,i would just enjoy the friendship,rather than risk losing it by seeing something more
2007-03-25 04:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋