in a relationship, whts more important, ur friends or ur loved one?

Question

im going out with this boy named travis, and he hangs out with his friend more than me. should i break up wit me. i luv him with every beat of my heart.

Answer 1

okay. he's going to be with his friends hes not going to just stop (it doesn't work that way)
if you break up with him this'll just repeat itself, your next might be around you in the beginining then he'll be with his friends. just tell'em you wanna spend more time together.

it's that easy

Answer 2

-ok! first of all im not tryin to sound mean, but friends are more important, becaue if somethin was to ever happen your friends are still going to be together when the lover isn't! You should never ditch your friends for someone else, because they will be there! And maybe you need to talk to travis and tell him that you are feeling kind of neglected because he nisn't spending enough time with you, let me kno how everything goes, GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

Ooo That's a tough one. I would have to say that they're both equally important. It's very important to have a good balance in the time spent with your friends and girlfriend but honestly a girl should never come between you and your friends unless youre married (Same goes for girls and boyfriends)

Answer 4

Ask him what is so important (but don't phrase it like that) and try to show an interest in what he wants to do with his other friends. Who knows? You might actually have an interest in what he's doing, which might strengthen a relationship.
If he is bothered by the question "to come along" then you might want to start looking elsewhere.

Answer 5

I don't know how old you are. If Travis is 14-25 then no, don't break up. If travis is 26-87 then yes, break up.

Answer 6

Kelly,
I know you aren't going to believe me, but you don't really love him. You are going through what is called "infatuation". I'm not trying to belittle your feelings, though, because at your age infatuation is a VERY intense feeling. I remember it well. I just want you to know that what you are feeling, even though intense, isn't really love and is fleeting. This time next month you won't feel it at all (at least towards him). That's the nature of the beast.

Answer 7

-ok! first of all im not tryin to sound advise, yet acquaintances are greater considerable, becaue if somethin replaced into to ever ensue your people are nevertheless going to be jointly while the lover isn't! you ought to on no account ditch your people for somebody else, because of the fact they are going to be there! and consistent with possibility you ought to speak to travis and tell him which you're feeling variety of neglected because of the fact he nisn't spending sufficient time with you, enable me kno how each and everything is going, good success!

Answer 8

No dont break up wit just let hm know what you feel ... like tell him that you lvoe him with every beat of your heart but he spends way too much time with his friends...

Answer 9

a good mix is best. my ex would constantly leave me for his friends to get drunk, and then blame it on me. but then when i would try to make plans, he made me feel guilty.
so try to have a few nights a week with JUST your friends, and a few nights a week with JUST him. also, have you tried hanging out with him & his friends, or him & your friends? that sometimes helps too...but it depends on the situation.
the best thing to do is to talk to him about it...let him know how much it bothers you. but make sure that he knows that you aren't trying to pull him away from his friends completely, but that you want a little bit of alone time too.
good luck! and make sure that whatever decision you make, YOU are the one who is happy...don't try to please others before yourself in this situation!

Answer 10

Ask Travis if he's bi. As he seems to prefer male company more!