i still love my ex-boyfriend (and im the one who broke up with him!) but he doesnt feel the same. infact, he could care less how i feel. i want to win his heart back, is guitar lessons too much? i want to completly shock him. if lessons are too much then what else can i do or say?
2007-03-25 03:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a drummer and has a (punk) band, so learning the guitar would really surprise him.
2007-03-25 03:55:16 · update #1
if he doesnt love you anymore and you know this, why would you want to be in his life as a default even if you tried winning him back. once the respect is lost, lets say he doesn't respect you anymore or he hates you, its not the same as being in love all over again. just find someone else to love, its not that hard.
2007-03-25 03:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by okey dokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I can advice you is juz giv up on him.. The reason is he already lost those feelings to you that's why he dump you. Until now you still not understand??
First, think about why he dump you? No feeling, different interest or etc.. He thinks that no hope with u so juz break coz human couldn't be together with a person that he/she not interested anymore.. Even you learn a guitar lessons as his interest to win back his heart. That's no point!! Believe me!! He break off not becoz u don't have his hobbies (guitar) interest.. Is he already no more feeling on u.. Maybe he interested on oth gals.. Maybe got bored when be with you.. Understand??
Hope you get what am I saying.. All the best for u.. Good Luck!!
P/S: Remember, this world got a lot of guys not only him.. Juz forget him & find the new target.. Go for a holiday to relax ur mind, make urself busy so that your mind won't keep on thinking of him, make a chance to recognise new guys to have a new target!! ('',)
2007-03-25 11:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Confused!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to ask yourself if it's really worth it.
Remember that you were the one who had broken up with him. He has probably moved on since then. I don't know the depth of relationship between the two of you. But I'd like to think that sometimes the end of the relationship simply means that you've learnt all that is to learn from this person and is ready to move on to another relationship. Think about the lessons you've learnt from the relationship with this ex-boyfriend. Think about the reasons why you've broken up with him in the first place. Think about what you really want.
Then make that decision.
2007-03-25 11:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by fatPig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at this point it seems like he doesn't care then forget about him.. You shouldnt have to change anything about yourself to get a guy. Move on honey because if he's acting like this then you deserve better.
2007-03-25 10:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol good luck i have been trying to learn for years
2007-03-25 10:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good b--w j-b will get him back
2007-03-25 10:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by pinklady25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space. DONT BUY HIM ANYTHING!
2007-03-25 10:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋