I am issuless & want to leave a nice footprint behind. I could not leave my children on this earth to continue my name. Sure I am a lady but my children would have continued my name.
2007-03-25 03:42:36 · 16 answers · asked by Nancy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Are you saying that you do not have children? Is it important to continue your neme after you are gone? You won't really care anymore.
2007-03-25 03:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sister,
Don't feel that being issue less is a pitiable condition and also don't imagine that all children get good name to parents.
In the world around, we see so many children behaving in a such a way that their parents are very much ashamed.They (parents) think they would have been better ,if they had no issues at all.
One thing So Many Persons lived before we came to existence.What they left.How many you remember that did good things in all their life.Time is such a thing that it makes everyone forget the past.It is the best ,wanted and wonderful quality of TIME.
Please do not feel disappointed.If you have money try to do some thing to the aged and physically retarded persons.
Or o to a good institution of learning (school or college ) and there please arrange for a scholar ship of considerable amount to the best economically backward student, irrespective of caste ,community and creed.
Feed the poor daily if you can.Or arrange in an Aashram that is running in a very good way and really serving poor, there donate what you can.
These things definitely make you happy now and I am sure for these things you do you will be rewarded by HIM in your next birth with worthy children.Believe in it.
Hope my answer has been helpful to some extent.
2007-03-25 11:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The basic problem with you is that you lack the motherly instinct.
It is quite common , a true mother considers and loves all kids as her own children.
God has given you the opportunity to consider your weakness as your strength.
Why do not you join a school or orphanage and try to devote all your energy and love to water small saplings into trees of tomorrow.
After all why do Mother Teresa is liked so much in this society? How many off springs did she have? But how many people are inspired by her?
All great people had done selfless work to attain fulfilment in life , whose footprints are kissed by the followers , for the golden path shown.
2007-03-26 05:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by ssen1232006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jyoti:
Modern day Indians like Rabindranath Tagore, Swami Vivekananda, Mother Theresa.. our own President... they never had children on their own. Their names are there for everyone to sing. They have left foot prints for anyone to follow..
Beauty is Jyoti... when they have their own children women are mothers just to their 1 /2 /3 or more children. For a few years in their life teachers, nurses, doctors and care givers take the role of mothers... but they dont do that whole heartedly and ofcourse there economic benefit attached to it.
A woman can define motherhood beautifully by becoming mother to all the children in this world.
Think of this as an opportunity. I am not saying that you have to run the slum nearby and grab all the kids and bring them home. The door and opportunities to you are so vast.
The world is your home and the all the sons and daughters of this world are your children...If you want that will be your calling. You wont even bother to even think of someone remembering you... your heart will be filled with love and motherhood
Wishes to you dear
2007-03-25 17:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Hungry soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God. U are issueless.You do not know how children ,both young and grown up trouble their parents by their behaviour and actions, in addition to the efforts you have in bringing them up, educating them and looking after them.
Why you should leave your footprints in the world. What great you have done? Are You a philanthropist, educationist, freedom fighter or a very rich person? To leave your footprints behind.
If you are rich give money to an orphanage, beggar home, temple or old age home/animal welfare. At least they will thank you forever.
2007-04-01 22:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by rajan l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who are yet to reach the stage of menopause can become mothers... if not possible by natural process then there are other ways like 'test tube baby' etc that may be followed... we should not give-up without exploring all the possible ways to achieve our goals... anyways, there are limitations for everything in the world…
Your desire to live beyond your life would not be essentially fulfilled by your probable children... your eternal life would depend on your own good or bad deeds rather than depending on another mortal generation…
In the current age most of the people do not have place in their homes (hearts) for their old parents who usually land up in old age homes… they die multiple deaths everyday, counting down days for the time of their final journey…
As far as birth and death are concerned, we come and go all alone… hence, forget about the life after death and think about your life you are living right now… think positive… cheer up…
2007-03-26 04:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to fight for some great cause or be a mother or some one in high standing to leave your foot print upon this earth.
Every person has their place and their job weather it be a friendly smile or a kind word that may bring hope into a persons life.
Letting a person that seems to be in a hurry to go ahead of you in the store, sending up a small prayer for some one in need.
giving some one advice to point them in the direction they should go.
caring for a person in their time of need.
giving a ride to some one that has no car .
People tend to over look the fact that we come into contact with hundreds of people every day of our lives. With every contact, you either change that persons life in a good way or a bad way.
We all leave our foot prints.
2007-04-02 00:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no.don't be negative.only to have issue to live footprint is ridiculuous.your good work positive outlook for the society is the real footprint.how many people remember lord rama or krishna because of thier child.presently even rahulgandhi is encashing the ideology of nehru and indira gandhi.does anyone remember Maragret thatcher because of her children no.dosome thing different for the society to have a positive footprint.
2007-03-30 04:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by rajeev k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing we leave this earth with is our name an example ; john doe died today he was such a liar 2. jane doe was laid to rest today she was the biggest drunk 3. jack doe will b buried this weekend he was the best friend i ever had civic leader giving kind loving no matter what we touch folks lives we leave footprints on this earth in folks hearts eternity is a lot longer than a life span
2007-03-25 10:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Name will remain how many years... our children maximum our grand children ...that means some 60-100 yrs.
What is the value of 100 years in this cosmos... are you known by your grand-grand parent ?
i will not write anything to say you goodie-goodie of not having a child..but one example and hope you understand what I mean
I lost my niece aged 15, whom i loved like any thing... I was broken, I had kept some money aside for air ticket for her to visit me. I took that money to an orphanage and purchased certain things they needed.... will you believe all children's eyes reflected the eyes of my niece... i felt as if she has melted and spread in those children !!
Just visit an orphanage and see how many children are waiting just to be loved...not to talk of material needs. serve them and be Mother Durga for all the children on the earth...why think of a small mother of 2/3 children only
hari aum
2007-03-25 12:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by ۞Aum۞ 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
how many of todays children carry their parents name ?. very few. many of us doesnot even carry the parents along and leave them alone when they really need us.
are you also know the number of elders left on the street, helpless.
let there be a jyothi home, where all the lonely helpless parent is taken care. let it feed each of them. the one who feeds will be their mother. that is you, even after your demise.
probably god didn't give you child earlier to make you understand this. but probably made you good.
be a mother to all helpless mothers
2007-03-29 14:25:30 · answer #11 · answered by sarjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋