I am a 16 year old girl who is in love with a guy whom is 26 years old we love each other so much and we are happy together we plan to get married the next 3 to 4 years but we don't know if our parents will agree or the fact is we know our parents will not agree.What should we do?Should we end our relationship?
2007-03-25 03:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know how honest you're being here. if i love someone, my parents don't matter and i can't call someone my love if i intend to break up with them or fell insecure. if you're not 100% into this person, the most humane thing would be, yes, to break up.
2007-03-25 03:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can really relate to you. I am attracted to older guys. Right now i am really into a 37 yr. old, making him 14 years older than me. I think it is okay for you to be seeing him but keep in mind, you are 16. If you two do get married, I wish you all the best. Although, I would hold off the marriage a little longer then 3 or 4 years. I have known a few people whom have gotten married at 19, 20, 21 and it has not worked out. If you really love him and him with you, the wait will be worth while.
2007-03-25 03:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by angelpoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, at 16 what do you have in common with a 26 year old ?
not to sound mean, but .. honestly.. how do you know you're soooo in love ? you're young, and it sounds more like puppy love than anything... a crush.
No matter how you feel right now, things will change, and you will change...you still have a lot of growing up to do (not in a bad way)
Don't plan marriage until you've had time for a childhood.. which you're still in...
Marriage is hard work, not something to be taken in stride, and not just something you decide one day. There's bills, mortgages, stress, and the need to reallllly work on a relationship. It isn't just moving in together and living happily ever after.
If it's meant to be, it will.. who's to put an age limit on love ?
But I just think you are way to young to think about this now.. maybe when you're 20 and he's 30.. things will look more realistic.
2007-03-25 03:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Miss B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age shouldn't be a barrier for 2 people who are in love!
Find the right time to introduce each other's parents. Make sure u can prove that u both can live independently. I'm sure they will agree.
All the best!
2007-03-25 03:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by AL75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you play it cool for those 3 to 4 years then start serious dating then no one can say anything --- if you decide to get married then you are both over 18 --- until then for both your sakes be very careful and circumspect in your dealings with each other
2007-03-25 03:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it!!! If you really love him and he loves you. Do what your heart tells you to do......Doesn't matter what parents or others think...It is your life LIVE IT!!!........BUT if it goes bad you have to be prepared to Live with that toooo...
2007-03-25 03:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal, but u need to cool down
2007-03-25 03:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BETTER U COME WITH ME I **** U
2007-03-25 04:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋