I want to keep my baby but my boyfriend thinks im getting an abortion in april. how can i hide it from him?
2007-03-25 03:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by shawty_red_atl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are not going to be able to hide it from him. Let him know that you don't want to get an abortion and that you want to keep your baby. If he starts acting crazy take out an order of protection against him. He's not going to be happy about it because you are lying to him and the decision you have made is going to affect him for the rest of his life. Make sure you stand your ground and remember that the last thing he wants is for this child to be born. He may try anything in his power to keep you from delivering.
2007-03-25 03:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At first, you can hide it but as soon as you grow bigger and showing more of your stomach he will know. Just tell him that you aren't getting an abortion in April. He should be happy for you.
You are not going to be able to hide it from him. Let him know that you don't want to get an abortion and that you want to keep your baby. If he starts acting crazy take out an order of protection against him. He's not going to be happy about it because you are lying to him and the decision you have made is going to affect him for the rest of his life. Make sure you stand your ground and remember that the last thing he wants is for this child to be born. He may try anything in his power to keep you from delivering.
2007-03-25 03:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by tarab91889@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to keep your boyfriend or your baby?
You want to keep a true relationship or a farse build with lies?
It seems you don't care to build a parenthood on common convictions,but would go the way to force it on somebody without your interests.Are you really Ready to CARE for someone else -much less independent-,when you(or him) can not seem to care for the "equal"other ??
If you are not ready for a mutual relationship between equals,you should know that aiming for something more demanding is not Responsible or sensitive for an Innocent third party.Else,is just plain Ego (playing on you),and you both seem still not out of it.Babies.
Unfortunely,many babies are made by other babies.
Chidren with guns...what to expect!
Not Nature's fault,but our Society,Cultural legacy of Victorian times,to delude biological adults to"remain children" and not be prepared for Reality consequences.Assuming Adulthood earlier,not virginity or anticonception,or free iresponsible sex.
Don't expect to grow after its birth,you may find yourself overwhelm and outplayed.Grow before,you make something grow.A fuller self is more to give.And trust me,you are going need all you can be,to be a parent.A full one,not some minor League.I am still graduating on it,and many times you feel failing and not truely prepare ahead.
If you are thinking really in hidding things,he is not only your (not trusted) friend-and you will need something more than a "friend" for what you want-you are really not to trust yourself.
2007-03-25 11:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are keeping it and that is that. If he wants to be the dead beat dad (sounds like it) then tell him to be on his way.
The fact that he wants you to have an abortion and is looking forward to it definetally tells me what kind of father he would be and it should tell you as well. Be happy, be proud and come out with it. Hiding it won't change anything. In fact, it will make things worse in the end run.
2007-03-25 03:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's great that you want to keep your child, my sister aborted 2 kids, keeping them is very responsible and the right thing to do.
I'm sad to say, I don't think you can. Because go figure your going to get larger, and you don't want to hold back on food because that is very unhealthy for the newborn. It could lead to many problems. I think you should just say something like this, "Look, your the one that got me pregnant, and I think I should be the one backing out, I'm the one who has to give birth to it. You need to take more responsibility. It's not fair for you to back out on me." I don't really know, but that might work, after all, your the one who has to carry, nurture and basically begin it's life, don't let him push you around.
If you want to keep it, keep it. You have the control without him manipulating you, it's your decision. I don't think he will be going through much pain.
I hope you get everything sorted out and just stand up for yourself, he will think he can push you around if you let him have is way.
Best of luck,
<33 Emie =)
2007-03-25 04:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by mANaTeE♥InSAniTEe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.....You need to do what's best for you, and if you want your baby then keep him/her. Don't try to make someone else happy. In life you need to worry about what makes you happy. If he don't want the baby then it sucks to be him. You can make it without a man. Trust me. I have 3 by the same man and thought for sure I couldn't do it by myself, but I have been and it's actually a lot easier by my self..Good luck to ya
2007-03-25 06:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by all eyez on me19962000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. But he doesn't have to like it.
Don't let him talk you into having the abortion. You'd regret it for the rest of your life. With or without his support, have the baby. Good luck.
2007-03-25 03:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by sublimetranscendental 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not getting an abortion. Somthing like this you cant hide from
2007-03-25 03:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If you don't want an abortion, you need to tell him that. What would be your excuse eight months from now when your stomach is inflated? You took up over-eating?
Tell him.
2007-03-25 03:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by miss_gem_01 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to hide it from him, you need to dump him. He is going to find out eventually.
2007-03-25 04:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋