What the hell happened with this girl I was supposed to take out?
We were supposed to go for dinner tonight after a month of talking on the phone and im and in all caps she's incoherently telling me she is tired of people's drama and stuff and she's just not making sense. I detected she'd be trouble, so I told her I'd give her space.
She said COOL. Why is she being like this when she wanted to see me so bad? Is this a warning sign?
BTW, there was another girl I met online that was very into me, now she has a lot of personal problems with her friends dying and I can't even talk to her anymore She doesn't get back to me.
It begs me to ask, is it me and they're all pulling on fronts? Or is it just im picking the wrong women?
2007-03-25 03:05:47 · 6 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
birdshoe,
I am NOT pressing. I am a gentleman on my dates,. but im also outgoing and to be honest with you, you gave me the wrong impression about "alot of fun". I take it you hooked up with the guys you met?
I don't do that.
2007-03-25 03:41:26 · update #1
obviously they are having some hard times right now.. dont push them.. and for petes sake find some real women!!
2007-03-25 03:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by lil miss agony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a while to get to know people. I have met allot of others on line and at first they all sound interesting, that is normal cuz we try to put the good stuff out there first.
I learned that it takes allot of oyster shucking to find the right pearl! Lots of guys really turned me on! But, then they would not go for me. Then (more often than not) the men would fall for me and I would not fall for them. Ahhh, so is life. Out of about 30 meetings I have found one or two that I can connect with, but all in all, I keep it in perspective and have allot of fun. It is more fun if you do not take it so seriously and expect too much. No one likes that on either side.! Have fun. Shuck some oysters!
2007-03-25 10:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by birdshoecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong. We are just angry sometimes.. obviously our hormones are crazy. If you feel that it is the wrong women.. go do it. It's not even worth wasting your time in your life with that kinda of drama. It's not you. Don't even think that. If they have personal issues. Stay out of it. It could leave you to more drama if you do. When she said, "COOL" she probably really did need space. Although, I think when you said, "I need some space" it did worsen a bit...Just follow your heart. :)
2007-03-25 10:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u need to try and find some different girls. Even if these girls were having problems i shouldnt stop them from being able to go out with someone. U should try letting the gilrs find u, just be yourself and let the girls approach u.
2007-03-25 10:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do online dating its bad for u
2007-03-25 10:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah right....dont do that online dating...
2007-03-25 10:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by habibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋