everyday i got to wake a girl i like/love to work as she got problem waking up in the morning.
However she don't show seem the same interest she had for me - Before that we used to text each other a lot then suddenly it died down.
( She had reveal she currently do not want any relationship when i express myself to her. )
But when i ask she need wake up call(in case she is off), she will say yes and never push me away.- If she really dislike me, i guess she will simply say no.)
I don't know whether is she interested in me at all.
but her cold attitude kinda hurt me badly and affect me a lot. She given me the kinda of "i can't live without her feeling and it sucks!"
I wish to keep clear of her..(I afraid if this goes on and I become deeply involved, I may get badly hurt). So that i can move on.
2007-03-25 03:01:59 · 21 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I?
1. Stop giving her morning call without informing her.
2. Inform her from tmr onward i won't give her wake up call
3. Call her for 1 week then stop without informing.
4. Call her for 1 week then inform her that wil be the last call.
5. Continue to wake her up everyday and hope for a relationship when she is ready.
P.s She was in a broken relationship 9 mth back and that was when i know her and help her get over it)
2007-03-25 03:03:53 · update #1
Continue giving her wake-up calls for some time. Maybe she'll have feelings for you in the future or maybe she won't. If she will, that'd be great, if won't, then just take those wake-up calls as a favor for a friend. Don't get involved for too long if knowing she'd never like you.
2007-03-25 03:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tertan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 1
2007-03-25 03:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by jackylberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear eddy, as you have mentioned, she had a heart break earlier.
it takes time to heal,
keep doing your work and wait for your chance, you have greater chance of getting accepted when she is ready for another relationship now then when you leave her.
If you leave her, she may get the impression that men are generally selfish and may lose whatever faith she has regenerated, at least in you.
Even if, you want to leave her on her own, better tell her that you are getting involved more and more being closer to her so please find someone else or better buy an alarm clock. That will be better instead of leaving her all of a sudden.
Better still, to increase your chances, help her overcome the after-effects of previous encounter. She'll find you better candidate.
2007-03-25 03:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number 2
2007-03-25 03:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She made it clear to you that she doesn't want a relationship with you. If you can keep your feelings only being friends then it will work out. I think she is afraid that since you want more she needs to back off. She still wants you as a friend but is having a hard time with it because she knows you want more. that is a hard situation for people to be in. Understand where she is coming from, if you cant be just friends with her. back off but let her know this upfront.
2007-03-25 03:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to wait awhile, dont stop giving her the wake up calls, it seems like a little thing she appreciates. shes just got out of a relationship, even though it was 9 months ago.. it can take years for a girl to heal and move on. just be there for her. if youve got a chance with her, then shell come to you when shes ready, if shes not interested, then youll just have to accept being friends and be glad that shes in your life. shes told you shes not ready. if she didnt like you at all shed tell you to just leave. goodluck with it all.
2007-03-25 03:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Missae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time she comes into your head, have another thought ready. You may even need to chant something like "Don't think about that... don't think about that..." Take down any photos/memorbillia of her from anywhere, wash off any tattos/ink marks on body or clothes or car, and don't just confine yourself to the internet. Go out with friends, and (quoteing The Bard) "Give liberty to both your eyes and examine other beauties!" Not just girls, but flowers, nature, ect, ect.
2007-03-25 03:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by serenityfan76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel and stop whining. U need to b strong and remember there are 1k's of women out there. Don't put all ur eggs in one basket. Besides, communication is very imp. in a relationship.
2007-03-25 03:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by dogbert1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, STOP trying to be in her life.
You are not an alarm clock.
Then put your good self out there for someone that does not treat you like a alarm clock. She is rude and you deserve a heck allot better. Pretend YOU are SICK of her!!!!
Love, YOUR MOM!
2007-03-25 03:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by birdshoecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has told you she doesnt want a relationship with you, you should move on and find a lady who does. Tell her that she needs to get an alarm clock.
2007-03-25 03:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋