She says she wants to get to know me cause there's something about me she likes, but loves her boy friend, so i suppose she just wants to be friends, im hanging out with her next week for cofee and stuff, really like her, but im just kidding myself aren't I ? damn i hate being just "friends" any advice, opinions, am i just being immature and selfish? no nasty feed back please
2007-03-25 02:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by nightdreamer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u reali lyk her become gud freinds with her end hope that she will fall in luv with you
you need to be friends before anything else can happen
2007-03-25 03:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did come across a girl few months back and even till now i have no slightest idea if she has a bf although she sounds like someone is with her. She does show tremendous of curiosity over me but frankly in retrospect i can only say that i wish i will steer out of that tricky situation. She seems to be in a difficult situation. Now I am with a wonderful gal and i am glad event has turn out that way. Cheers.
2007-03-25 10:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on because it sounds like you really like her and the more time you give her the stronger you feelings will get and she's not available then you're stuck in a hard place but you would have brought it upon yourself because she told you she was in a relationship. I don't think you'll be able to handle just being her friend so move on to someone you actually have a chance to be with.
2007-03-25 10:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is coming from a guy,
THis sounds kind of like this one chick that i knew a little more than a year ago.
I highly doubt that she just wants to be friends. Your proabably not the only guy that she is talking to like this.
If she has a boyfriend I'd kind of forget it, cause it's not fair to him and when she gets tired of you she'll do the same behind your back too.
2007-03-25 10:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel i had to deal wit this summer 06 and now i got her her and its going to be six months now soon but what you have to so is spend as much time with her as you can comment her not nasty things just sayy hey you look rele good today and jus become rele good friends and eventually you will get herr but it could take a lil whilee it took me 3 months of waitingg but i promise you neverrrrr give up if u have true feeling r her
2007-03-25 10:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about her guy, you aren't getting anywhere. Been down that road, it's a stupid road, better just get on with finding a girl for yourself. Sure you can still be friends with the girl, but won't it just make you mad knowing how much you really want her but can't? Better move on, that's my advice to you.
2007-03-25 10:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by y2kguyarea51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy man.
so what if she has aboyfriend. its just a boyfriend.
next week when you have a coffee with her, find out what are her problems between her boyfriend and herself. the more troubles she exposed the more comfortable she gets to you. (hopefully she cries) and thats when you be the hero giving her solutions to her boyfriend (postive solutions of course) so that she will think that you are concerned bout her and you're a good guy not wanting their relationship to break (of course you do want it) and then from that moment, your progress should improve. it works 90% of the time i used it.
2007-03-25 10:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just become really close friends with her, if her relationship breaks up youll be the 1st person she goes to, then shell realise how nice you are and then ask her out to a nice restaurant =D
2007-03-25 10:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Missae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋