Any suggestions on condoms, perfumes, I just want to know how it feels, because I am certainly ready to explore my women side
And I really love my boyfriend.
2007-03-25 02:56:26 · 28 answers · asked by m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And you felt the need to tell the world because..........??????? Dear, a grown-up doesn't feel the need to share intimate information. You are not ready yet.
2007-03-25 02:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Use lots of water based lubricant and make sure your boyfriend spends heeeeaps of time on foreplay and when ur ready just make sure he is gentle, use condoms that aren't out of date so brand new from the chemist, apply lubricant to penis with condom on and lubricate yourself but u should be naturally wet any way if you've been treated sensually, gentle and careful for the first time and the more you relax the more you'll enjoy it. Another tip is take big deep breaths that should help with having an enjoyable orgasm.. good luck
just wanted to add its perfectly fine to ask this question and your not doing anything wrong at all , sex is completely natural if you relax it wont hurt and the more u do it the more pleasure you get. some people on here are just mean and dont know what they're talking about. all the best honey
2007-03-25 10:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so proud of you! Waiting until you are 18 yrs old is unheard of these days. Just make sure its really what you want. Think of all the consequences to the action.
Now, with lectures aside (lol), Trojan is most popular out there. Perfume, well I guess that's a personal preference. I would reccommend you try some KY lubricant of some sort. They make several different types.
Honestly, I know you want to know how it feels. The first time HURTS - so be prepared - buy the lubricant.
And don't worry, hun - half these people making lame *** comments probably didn't wait until they were 18 to have sex. Just ignore them and do what you think is right. It's your life.
2007-03-25 10:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by ohio_ninja_cows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, good for you for waiting!
When I could still use latex condoms, we used Trojan thin. They just felt better.
Perfumes I wouldn't bother with.
It feels a little weird at first. Just remember to relax. If you've never masturbated, you might want to try just so you know what to expect.
Make sure he's ready to listen to your suggestions on what feels good and what doesn't. And remember: foreplay is your friend!
Have fun!
EDIT: Two things I wanted to add after I read some of the other answers. 1) My first time didn't hurt at all because I was relaxed. 2) She didn't ask for you to judge her. The woman is ready, and she just wants advice. Back off.
2007-03-25 10:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well a condom would be right for the first time. Your b/f needs to get a not so sensitive one as he'll come very quickly the first time. He needs to get you really horny so that it won't hurt much. Lots of foreplay beforehand to prepare you.
For future get the new monthly contraceptive ring which saves having to remember the pill every day.
As for perfumes and things, use some scented candles and low lights.
2007-03-25 10:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of good quality condoms on the market --- the choice is yours --- i would suggest little or no perfume --- it is possible it will not taste very nice
as far as how it feels that is not possible you cant describe it you can only experience it --- make sure you have plenty of time and somewhere safe and comfortable --- because i guarantee the first time will be disappointing at least for you (unless your boyfriend is experienced and caring) so expect at least a few tries to start to get it right ---- best wishes and enjoy
2007-03-25 10:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well the first time hurts like hell. umm definetly use a condom and lots of lube perfumes any type that you really like. just try and relax and make sure that your ready cause you NEVER get your first time back. Good luck.
2007-03-25 10:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...being it your first time your not going to want to go all out with twisted pleasure condoms and all kinds of sex toys. i would suggest a normal, lubricated condom, i didnt use lube my first time, but it makes it a little more interesting :) and on how it feels...well most girls will say yea it hurts, and it can, but your its not going to feel like your about to die, just make sure you FOREPLAY before you have sex that way you have time to get wet and all that jazz ^_^
2007-03-25 10:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you wait the better husband you will find. The more respect you will have for a man who is willing to wait foryou. It's all about respect and self esteem. Sex isn't like driving a car.
2007-03-25 10:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by g1cajun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most any condom will do for not transmitting STD'd, but to be safe from getting pregnant, use a birth control pill too. condoms can break or leak.
2007-03-25 10:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
used protection. condoms. and birth control. I had sex the first time when I was 21 witch is I am now. its responsibility its not just fun know what u do and do it. never have sex with no condoms. never. even with Ur BF. take Ur time.
2007-03-25 09:59:41 · answer #11 · answered by salma s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋