My boyfriend and I have been together for 25 months. Over Three months ago he moved away and everything was fine for a little while but then he started acting really strange. He kept forgetting to call when he said he would, and when he did call we spoke for less then five minutes, he got a myspace (and I know this might be stupid but it did hurt my feelings) and never added me as a friend, but added 74 other people, i am not even acknowledged as a girlfriend anywhere on it, and he has pictures of himself and a friend who is a girl on it, but none of him and I. I sent him an email a while ago asking him why he was acting this way (only because he had started to call at around 1 in the morning and i was 2 sleepy 2 ask). He read it but ignored it. And on friday @ 1:23 in the morning he called, said goodnight, hung up. And I haven't heard from him since. Never in our entire relationship have we gone a day without talking to each other at all. I've tried to call him but nothing happened.
2007-03-25 02:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by NiKkY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry, babe... dump him, he's an a--hole. Don't let any man make you feel you're not tops in his life.
2007-03-25 02:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a break up! Those are the signs and he is a coward not to have told you straight up. Just forget him and ignore him, my guess is he is already with someone else - probably the girl in the pic.
2007-03-25 09:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not interested in being a relationship with you,but that may be because of the way you spun the information,i'm not sure.
It's definitely not a breakup,and if he really isn't interested in you anymore,the fact it isn't a breakup is a problem.
2007-03-25 09:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it certainly sounds as if he's found someone else...or is involved with something else ( drugs alcohol?)
distance in relationships are hard..how far did he move away?
of course you are hurt...
he should have sat down with you..and should have acted like a man and broken up face to face..
the fact that his behaviour has changed so drastically...
cut him loose...
get him out of your life....
find someone better..
2007-03-25 09:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not a breakup he moved away so he is just getting used to the area but you might want to take necessary precautions as he may be with another girl but get a guy so if he leaves you if wont be so bad
2007-03-25 09:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by cutemarv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, because then you get the "credit" for the break-up. He's technically already broken up with you, but if you can get the credit, then you'll have hand in the relationship.
2007-03-25 09:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by zak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know he's probably having second thoughts and finds it hard to maintain a long distance relationship with you
Give him somespace
2007-03-25 09:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not what you want to hear but truth hurts girl move on sounds like he has!
2007-03-25 09:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by luv2hate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. I say move on, he's through with you.
2007-03-25 09:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call him and tell him that if he doesn't listen to you you re gonna break up wit him.then have a long talk about the way he is acting and the way he fells about you.hope that helps~
2007-03-25 09:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not being a real boyfriend. he didn't specifically break up with you, but you should lay it down on the line and do it yourself. face it; he's not being a real boyfriend to you, and he's moved on. i don't think you should put your trust in someone that treats you like crap.
you should definitely move on.
2007-03-25 09:30:15 · answer #11 · answered by Jen Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋