I'm crushing to a guy that was my clasmate right now!i am crushing on him since june 2006!!!Now he knew that im crushing on him.to save me,i told him that i have a boyfriend just to pretend so he dont know the real things are.
2007-03-25 02:18:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him the truth, while you grind on him
2007-03-25 02:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by MrKnowItAll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First stay in school. Focus your learning on English. Learn to be able to write a complete sentence so other can understand what you are asking. I think you said you have a crush on a good friend. He found out that you have a crush on him, then you lied to him so that you would not have to tell him you have a crush on him. Why? This is totally disastrous. Lies will not get you want you want. Lies only lead you down the road of heart ache and misery. Look my dear, always be strong, tell the truth, tell him that you don't have a boyfriend and yes you like him. If he likes you to then you are where you want to be. With him. You are making this boyfriend and girlfriend very hard. Why are you so self destructive? Why are you killing your chances to have him as a boyfriend? Are you Blond? Sorry..... but you are not at all logical in your approach. Tell the truth, get your life straight and you will be much happier.
2007-03-25 02:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never start a relationship off with lies. It breaks the trust barrier which is already up when a new relationship blooms. Be honest with him and tell him that you have an interest in him but were too shy at the time to admit it. If he thinks you have a boyfriend, then you've already closed the door. So open it again and be truthful to him and yourself. Before it is too late.
2007-03-25 02:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!, why you did that?!
i did the same but in a terrible way, i had a real crush in a boy and i did the same, i lost all my chances to get him, you need to tell him the truth!, and if you think you don´t have the force to do it, just say " i broke up with him" the best thing to do is say what you feel, and the worst thing was that to take care of my lie i did had a boyfriend and i didn´t loved him!! it was all a lie set by my pride!, you need to be honest. i really wish you luck tell me what happens!
2007-03-28 13:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by pamela o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell your boyfriend that things are over between you two now, SINCE you dont feel the same way anymore. I think it was wrong of you to do that, but to make his life better, you need to tell him so he can move onto a better girl.
2007-03-25 02:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more lying, and no matter what you do it will be hard to undo what you have done but tell him open and honest and just say that when you said it you weren't available to see or do anything else, if you are suppose to be a couple then it will work out
2007-03-25 02:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by ffperki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you got scared, that you don't have a boyfriend, chances are you guys could hit it off pretty well, don't be afraid of what you feel and don't be afraid to express them, feelings are what make us all human.
2007-03-25 02:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and don't lie...that's the best...if you didn't tell him the truth and lie to him you'll end up getting a lot of troubles..
2007-03-25 03:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spot a perfect timing to get his attention... tell him that you just broke up with your bf then grab him.... =) easy!
2007-03-25 02:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by exotic_fem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheesh grl just tell him u broke up with ur boyfriend!!!!
2007-03-25 02:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Alien Demo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋